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Friday, December 31, 2010

Aggressive Driving: It's Illegal to Drive Aggressively!


Society is moving at a faster pace now more than ever. It is possible the increased value of time is causing us to be much more aggressive on the road, especially during commuting hours. Some drivers only see the traffic ahead of them as an obstacle to overcome at any cost. When we couple this with society's becoming accustomed to instantaneous communications, the problem becomes more pronounced. Whatever the reasons may be, this attitude can place those who share the roadway in jeopardy.
According to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration, the definitions of aggressive driving and road rage are as follows:

Aggressive Driving

"The commission of two or more moving violations that is likely to endanger other persons or property, or any single intentional violation that requires a defensive reaction of another driver."

Road Rage

"An assault with a motor vehicle or other dangerous weapon by the operator or passenger(s) of one motor vehicle on the operator or passenger(s) of another motor vehicle caused by an incident that occurred on a roadway.

Aggressive Driving & Road Rage Symptoms

  • Mentally condemning or thought of violence toward other drivers.
  • Verbally expressing condemnation of other drivers to passengers in your vehicle.
  • Not obeying traffic safety rules because you don't agree with them.
  • Engage in aggressive and risky driving:
    • Following too close.
    • Speeding.
    • Weaving in and out of traffic.
    • Speeding up to beat a traffic light.
    • Cutting between vehicles to change lanes.
    • Using the horn excessively.
    • Flashing headlights excessively at oncoming traffic.
    • Braking to get others to back off your bumper.
    • Passing another driver, then slowing to teach them a lesson.

So, Are You an Aggressive Driver?

What about your own driving? Take a minute to evaluate yourself to see if you may have developed some habits that could be adding to the aggressive driving atmosphere. Go to Campaign Safe & Sober - Get the Word Out to determine if you are an aggressive driver.

Some Safety Tips and Words For Wisdom:

  • Allow plenty of time for the trip, listen to soothing music, improve the comfort in your vehicle, and understand that you cannot control the traffic, only your reaction to it. In the end, we may very well discover that personal frustration, anger, and impatience may be the most dangerous "drugs" on the highway.
  • Be polite and courteous, even if the other driver is not. Avoid all conflict if possible. If another driver challenges you, take a deep breath and move out of the way. Never underestimate the other driver's capacity for mayhem.
  • When entering traffic or changing lanes, make sure that you have enough room.
  • Make sure you have established a safe following distance between your vehicle and the one in front of you. For more information, see the Driving safety and accidents page on the DOL Web Site.
  • Don't make aggressive hand gestures to the other drivers when they offend you with their driving.
  • Signal when turning or changing lanes.
  • Control your anger; remember it takes two to start a fight.
  • Avoid prolonged eye contact with the bad or angry driver.
  • Get help. Call police on your cell phone or go to a public telephone or place. Don't pull to the side of the road.
  • Forget about winning. No one wins in a highway crash.
  • Put yourself in the other driver's shoes. They may be driving that way because of an actual emergency!

What the State Patrol Is Doing

Washington State Patrol's “Aggressive Driving Apprehension Team” (ADAT) program is a proactive effort to locate and arrest those drivers who drive aggressively. The ADAT program uses unmarked/unconventional police vehicles equipped with mobile video cameras to detect and apprehend aggressive drivers, which is one of the Field Operations Bureau's four Core Missions:
  • Reduce DUI's
  • Reduce incidents of aggressive driving
  • Reduce incidents of dangerous speeding
  • Increase seat belt compliance
The Commercial Vehicle Division (CVD) also uses unmarked patrol vehicles to combat aggressively driven commercial vehicles and cars driving dangerously around commercial vehicles.

This Is What You Can Do

Aggressive driving has become a serious public safety threat across the nation. Throughout the United States, law enforcement administrators, traffic safety experts, public health officials, mayors, legislators, and governors are being enlisted to help find a solution. Yet experience has shown that significant steps to improve traffic safety in this nation are made when citizens act. The Campaign Safe & Sober - Battling Aggressive Driving Web site offers tips for starting a grassroots effort in your community to battle aggressive driving.

Be Safe And Report Aggressive Drivers

Washington State and Interstate Highways Only

Incidents in-progress should be reported immediately by calling 911.
Incidents in the past, including ongoing or reoccurring patterns of aggressive driving on state or interstate highways, should be reported to the Washington State Patrol district office responsible for that area. If you have witnessed or been a victim of an aggressive driving act, please call and provide the following information that is needed by law enforcement:
  • The location that you last saw the vehicle.
  • Direction of travel (toward where).
  • What road or highway.
  • Color/colors of the vehicles.
  • Were weapons involved?
  • What happened?
  • Are you a victim or a witness?
Telephone numbers for District Offices:
District Map
  • District 1 - (253) 538-3240
  • District 2 - (425) 401-7788
  • District 3 - (509) 575-2320
  • District 4 - (509) 227-6566
  • District 5 - (360) 260-6333
  • District 6 - (509) 682-8090
  • District 7 - (360) 654-1204
  • District 8 - (360) 478-4646
-Birdy

Monday, December 27, 2010

What is Road Rage?

Road rage (also known as "road violence"), is the informal name for deliberately dangerous and/or violent behavior under the influence of heightened, violent emotion such as anger and frustration, involving an automobile in use, in which a driver or other person lashes out against another due to frustration, stressful, or emotional over-load.

This can involve deliberately hitting another person, vehicle or object with his/her own vehicle and/or firing a weapon from it.  Other possibilities include [but are not limited to] hitting the person or vehicle with an item which is not his vehicle, but which ultimately hits another person or vehicle, and doing so with a deliberate act of aggression intending to cause damage and/or physical injury to another.

Getting out of one's vehicle to another person's vehicle and banging, knocking on the windows, and yelling insults, is another form of road rage.  Road rage can be caused by a variety of events, circumstances, and environments. The three main categories use to classify what causes road rage are the environment, instructive responses, and territorial defensiveness.
   

The Road Rage Driver:  What is the Cause of Road Rage?
Environmental conditions are the main factors associated with road rage. These conditions can consist of traffic congestion, another’s dangerous driving habits, the weather (heat, humidity, etc.), noise levels, stress, and time constraints.

The other two causes of road rage, instructive responses and territorial defensiveness are also closely related. Intrusive responses are actions of retaliation to get back at another for their careless driving. Territorial defensiveness is the act of defending ones personal space (the car) in response to another individuals driving.

Road rage is an extremely serious act; and it can be seen as a violation of property rights and/or an endangerment of personal security.




Finally a note of caution, as the old saying goes, we teach our children by our own actions, a drives experiencing road-rage with children in the back seat, is in effect teaching those children that road rage is an okay action. Please parents who have little ones on board your vehicle, think before you lash out with words or actions in a situation, as our children are precious and have minds that soak up facts faster than a sponge. -Birdy



Scams - Weight Loss Claims

The Bait:
Emails promising a revolutionary pill, patch, cream, or other product that will result in weight loss without diet or exercise. Some products claim to block the absorption of fat, carbs, or calories; others guarantee permanent weight loss, still others suggest you'll lose lots of weight at lightening speed.

The Catch:
These are gimmicks, playing on your sense of hopefulness. There's nothing available through email you can wear or apply to your skin that can cause permanent – or even significant weight loss.

Your Safety Net:
Experts agree that the best way to lose weight is to eat fewer calories and increase your physical activity so you burn more energy. A reasonable goal is to lose about a pound a week. For most people, that means cutting about 500 calories a day from your diet, eating a variety of nutritious foods, and exercising regularly. Permanent weight loss happens with permanent lifestyle changes. Talk to your health care provider about a nutrition and exercise program suited to your lifestyle and metabolism.

Forward weight loss emails to spam@uce.gov

What Is First-Degree Burglary?


There seems to be some confusion concerning the law in regards to the criminal action of Burglary, and maybe this article will clear up some of that confusion. The crime of theft falls under many categories. Depending on where the crime takes place and who is involved, criminals can be charged with petty theft or grand larceny. One type of theft is a burglary, this classification of theft that involves any unlawful entry into or onto private property, for the purposes of committing a felony or stealing another's property for his/her own personal usage.

The Definition
  • First-degree burglary is defined as a person unlawfully entering a residence, intending to commit a crime against either the inhabitant or the property within.
Some Additional Crimes
  • Theft is not the only crime covered by burglary. If the criminal assaults any person during the act or carries a deadly weapon on his person, this falls under first-degree burglary.
The Punishment
  • First-degree burglary is a Class A felony, and those found guilty are likely to spend up to 9 years in a state prison.

The Types of Exceptions
  • Entering and stealing from a commercial property, such as a business or office building, is considered second-degree burglary.
And Around the World
  • In Scotland, burglary is defined as entering a residence with intent to steal, while in Canada, burglary is covered under the term "breaking and entering."


Hopefully the above explanation will assist those who were wondering what the exact definition of Burglary in the 1st Degree was. -Birdy

Work-at-Home Scams

The Bait:
Advertisements that promise steady income for minimal labor – in medical claims processing, envelope-stuffing, craft assembly work, or other jobs. The ads use similar come-ons: Fast cash. Minimal work. No risk. And the advantage of working from home when it's convenient for you.

The Catch:
The ads don't say you may have to work many hours without pay, or pay hidden costs to place newspaper ads, make photocopies, or buy supplies, software, or equipment to do the job. Once you put in your own time and money, you're likely to find promoters who refuse to pay you, claiming that your work isn't up to their "quality standards."

Your Safety Net:
The FTC has yet to find anyone who has gotten rich stuffing envelopes or assembling magnets at home. Legitimate work-at-home business promoters should tell you – in writing – exactly what's involved in the program they're selling. Before you commit any money, find out what tasks you will have to perform, whether you will be paid a salary or work on commission, who will pay you, when you will get your first paycheck, the total cost of the program – including supplies, equipment and membership fees – and what you will get for your money.

Can you verify information from current workers? Be aware of "shills," people who are paid to lie and give you every reason to pay for work. Get professional advice from a lawyer, an accountant, a financial advisor, or another expert if you need it, and check out the company with your local consumer protection agency, state Attorney General and the Better Business Bureau – not only where the company is located, but also where you live.

Forward work-at-home scams to spam@uce.gov.

Teaching Children Skills to Prevent Abduction: Going Beyond "Don't Talk to Strangers"

* Children should know their name, address and phone number (with area code) so, if lost, they can be reunited with their family.

* Older children should know parents' work numbers.

* Away from home, older children should always be with a friend, always tell an adult where they will be, and say "no" if they feel threatened or uncomfortable.

* Children need to know that appropriate strangers -- store clerks or police officers -- can offer assistance if they are lost or need help.

* Parents need to listen, and respect their children's feelings. Children can sense unease in inappropriate relationships. They'll likely share their concerns if parents routinely take all of their concerns in life seriously rather than downplaying or shaming them.

*cChildren need to know that they do not need to kiss, hug, touch or sit on the lap of anyone, relative or not, if they do not wish to. This respect for their wishes translates into self-respect and the ability for children to say no to unwanted contacts without generating fear.

* Parents need to supervise children who use the Internet. Although still relatively uncommon, the practice of pedophiles and child molesters approaching children on the Internet is occurring more frequently.

* Parents need to keep reinforcing safety messages through middle school and high school. According to the U.S. Department of Justice, most victims of non family abductions were 12 years or older (58 percent). Most were girls (65 percent).

* Parents should realize the limitations of participating in programs where children are fingerprinted or otherwise identified. These programs can frighten children and raise fears in adults without giving perspective on the real nature or risk of abduction.

* Parents should keep on hand a high-quality recent photo of each child, such as a school photo. Law enforcement officials consider photos the best tool in finding missing children.

* Parents should promptly report a missing child. The Amber Plan, the national program to immediately flood a region with news of abduction, is credited with helping to recover more than 130 children since it started two years ago.

 -Note: if you have any questions regarding the above, please feel free to leave a comment. -Birdy

Psychological Adjustment To Rape

This article is written for women and assumes a male offender, however it is acknowledged that both men and women can be survivors of sexual abuse and that offenders can be male and/or female.


Introduction

Sexual assault is an act of violence that is by definition against the victim's will. The victim is forced to submit to genital, oral and/or anal sexual acts and often to other aggression, abuse and degradation. The attacker controls the situation by the use of physical force, threats of harm and intimidation. The victim fears she is going to be killed or injured. In our experience most victims have perceived that their survival is dependent on compliance and submission to the offender's demands.

Sexual assault is an arbitrary event in the victim's lifestyle. It is sudden, unexpected and unpredictable. She is faced with a life-threatening situation that she is unable to effectively resolve. Her usual methods of coping with threats and conducting interpersonal relationships fail her. It is a violation of her physical self and her basic beliefs and assumptions about her environment, about other people and relationships and about herself.

As a result women may experience severe psychological effects. The way the victim copes with the trauma of rape is dependent on several factors. These include her ego strength her social network support, her life cycle stage and the way she is treated as a victim. On 20th May, 1978, the National Times noted that "The Honolulu Star Bulletin" recently reported that Judge Robert V. Richardson had dismissed a rape charge against a motorist who had allegedly knocked down a woman jogger and raped her. The Judge dismissed the rape action because he believed that the woman who was dazed after the accident "did not put up enough resistance."

This statement illustrates the degree to which women are still held to be responsible for or in some way complicit with the act of rape. Despite many changes that have occurred in the treatment of rape victims, there still exists in our society ignorance about, and ambivalence towards the rape victim, causing for many an additional stress.

To date, there has been little well controlled research on the psychological adjustment of the victim. Most sexual assault clinics have been concerned with providing support and treatment to the victim rather than systematic evaluation. Professionals have been reluctant to subject rape victims to intrusive evaluation procedures. Their treatment needs have been the primary focus of such clinics.

Sexual Assault Clinic - Queen Victoria Medical Center

The Queen Victoria Medical Center operates a 24-hour Sexual Assault Clinic for male and female victims. 7 Social workers provide the counseling component of the service, which has been operating since May 1979. Prior to this, counseling was offered on a referral basis. The main source of referral was and still is the police. Consequently the medical examination is usually performed by one of the police surgeons who treat any injuries and collect evidence for legal proceedings. Follow-up routine testing for possible venereal disease and pregnancy is also provided. Counseling and medical services are also available to those who choose not to report to police.

In the first year of operation of the 24-hour service, social workers saw 279 victims. Of these 204 were victims of rape/attempted rape, 32 were victims of indecent assault, 18 were of incest, 9 were carnally known, and 16 were classified as other.

Rape trauma syndrome

Burgess and Holmstrem studied 109 women who attended the Boston City Hospital in 1974 complaining of rape. They collected their data at the time of initial presentation at the hospital and again 3 months later. They documented the "rape trauma syndrome". They found two phases of adjustment following rape or attempted rape. They call these the acute phase and the long-term reorganization phase, both of which are stress reactions to a life-threatening situation.

Immediately following the rape they found that an equal number of women had an "expressed" style where they showed feelings of fear by crying, smiling, sobbing or a "controlled" style where the woman was calm and subdued. The primary emotion expressed by victims is one of fear. Most any say that they felt they were going to be killed or badly injured.

When an individual is subjected to extreme stress, psychological mechanisms are evoked in an attempt to cope with this stress. If the stress is powerful then the defense mechanisms she uses must be equally powerful. Thus the rape victim may experience emotional shock where she has an exaggerated sense of unreality and disassociation. Things seem unreal to her, and she may have difficulty attending to environmental stimuli. As well, women who have reported to police, have a number of immediate tasks to perform: the making of a statement, identifying the alleged offender either from photos or with an identikit, repeatedly recalling details of the assault, under-taking a medical examination and so on. Most victims try to remain in control of themselves so that they can adequately perform these tasks. It is our experience that women who react in a controlled way are equally as traumatized as those who act in an expressed manner. Unfortunately the extent of the trauma experienced by these women may go unrecognized by their family/friends or professionals and they may receive less support and treatment. In addition, family and others who subscribe to the myth that rape victims to be genuine must exhibit histrionic behavior may not believe these women.

Somatic reactions developed included physical trauma, skeletal muscle tension, gastrointestinal irritability, genitourinary complaints and sleep pattern changes.

Emotional reactions include fear, humiliation, anger, guilt/shame and feelings of degradation and powerlessness. Mood swings and enhanced emotional liability may occur. Increased irritability with, and suspiciousness of other people may also be present. The issue of trust may be important in the counseling process. Given that the rapist has betrayed the victim’s trust in people, it may make it more difficult for her to trust others. The counselor needs to indicate that she can empathize with the victim's feelings, that she can listen and acknowledge the intense emotions the victim has, and encourage rather than suppress discussions of these. The victim may displace her anger onto the counselor, police, hospital or family. She may be dominated by feelings of helplessness and powerlessness. She needs to be encouraged to make decisions for herself in order to learn to feel some control over her life again. Crisis counseling which is issues orientated is an effective management procedure, and the counseling needs of the victim include ventilation and clarification of issues. Only 15% of victims at the hospital continue in counseling after 6 interviews. The situation is a crisis, most victims are psychologically healthy people, and the treatment of choice is crisis intervention so this is appropriate.

Burgess and Holmstrom report that in the reorganization phase women develop increased motor activity, changing their jobs, home or lifestyle as a defensive reaction to the assault. Nightmares relating to the life threatening nature of the assault and the powerlessness and alienation are common. The development of phobic reactions to situations reminiscent of the rape also occurs. Some mistrust of men with subsequent avoidance and hesitation, along with a variety of sexual difficulties may develop. Victims are often concerned about the effects of the rape on their close interpersonal relationships wondering how this will affect them.

It is important to discuss with the victim the types of problems, feelings and areas of difficulty that she could experience in the weeks and months following the assault. Most victims have no point of reference upon which to evaluate the normality of their response. Provision of this information enables the victim to place her rape-related reactions into perspective.

Factors influencing victims coping capacity

1. The woman's personality and her previous coping mechanisms influence her ability to cope with the rape.

Women with a past or current history of physical, psychiatric or social problems appear to be more likely to develop severe depression, psychotic behavior, psychosomatic disorders, suicidal behavior and acting out behavior associated with alcoholism, drug abuse and/or sexual activity.

Social network support is a factor affecting the woman's coping capacity. Firstly that the woman has significant others in her social network. A number of women, particularly elderly widows who live alone, and whose friends have died, and family moved away, are socially isolated. This can intensify their feelings of alienation and powerlessness, and one of the tasks of the counselor would be to build up social networks for these victims.

2. Secondly, these people need to be supportive. They need to allow the woman the opportunity to discuss the assault if she wants to and to listen to her. Some families and partners tell the woman "to forget it" refusing to accept the extent of the trauma. Other families become over protective, which may foster regression and dependency in the woman. This seems to occur particularly with adolescents who are in the process of separating from their parents. Some families respond by rejecting the woman. Others are judgmental particularly when they do not approve of the victim's behavior, and the rape may exacerbate existing conflicts over this. Some families respond with anger.

Other members can over-identify with the victim particularly when they have experienced a similar situation, and are unable to recognize the victim's needs.

3. Life cycle stage may also affect the victim's coping capacity. The rape means different things to women at different stages of their life. The younger adolescent for whom the rape is her first sexual experience may become concerned about her sexual behavior in the future. She may become afraid of entering into relationship with her adolescent peers.

The middle adolescent who is beginning to develop relationships with males may find that the rape may compound her existing confusion about what is appropriate, affectionate and sexual behaviors.

Middle aged women who may be reassessing their lives and roles, and concerned with independence and autonomy may find the rape reinforcing feelings of inadequacy.

4. The way the woman is treated as a victim may also influence her ability to cope.

This includes treatment by:

1) The police: Of necessity the police are required to question the victim thoroughly. If this is not explained to her she may perceive that she is not believed and this can reinforce feelings of guilt and self blame.

If she is unable to accurately describe her assailant or recall details of the attack, this may reinforce feelings of low self worth and inadequacy.

2) Hospital service. If the victim is treated in an impersonal manner then the feelings of depersonalization are reinforced. If hospital staff offer judgment comments on her behavior then feelings of guilt can be produced.

3) The courts: The above comments apply here as well. The cross-examination can seem like a repeat of the rape experience.

4) The circumstances of the assault can affect the victim's coping capacity.

If the victim is acquainted with her assailant then she is less likely to report the rape to the police.

If she knows the rapist then she may feel more guilt wondering what she has done to provoke the attack. She may question her ability to judge other people. She is unable to use rationalization as a defense to cope with the attack. She seems to feel a greater sense of betrayal and is more confused about the meaning of the act.

If the attack occurs in the victim's home, she may be more fearful. She, as an individual has been invaded as well as her own environmental space.

Whilst a woman's response to rape may follow a predictable pattern, each individual's circumstances provide differences that will affect her coping capacity and reaction.

The fact that a woman's psychological adjustment to rape, is in part determined by the social systems that impinge upon her, indicates a need for a widespread community response to ensure that those systems are both responsive to her needs, and used to their maximum therapeutic capacity.

-Birdy

Saturday, December 25, 2010

WHAT'S THE REAL CRIME, LESBIAN PARENTING OR HOMOPHOBIA?



Dyke Action Alert
Buford parsons, a Virginia judge decided that it was in the "best interest" of two year old Tyler Doustou to take him away from his mother, Sharon Bottoms, simply because she's a lesbian. Tyler has been placed in the home of Sharon's mother and stepfather who, Sharon reports, sexually abused her repeatedly as a child.

Lesbian rights advocates across the nation are urging an immediate response to this outrageous decision. Don't let right-wing hatred of lesbians run loose!

PLEASE HELP TO ZAP THIS JUDGE'S ACTIONS

Phone - Letter Campaign

Contact Virginia Governor Douglas Wilder and demand that he:

1). immediately institute impeachment proceedings against Judge Buford Parsons, and;

2). take every action necessary to return custody of Tyler Doustou to his mother, Sharon Bottoms.

Office of the Governor
Capitol Bldg., 3rd Flr
Richmond, VA 23219
804-786-2211

National Coming Out Action at BART Stations throughout the Bay Area to raise awareness about the Sharon Bottoms case.
Gathering Points: 24th & Mission BART - San Francisco; Ashby Bart - East Bay

For more info, call: the Lesbians of Women Against Imperialism 415-995-4735


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Note from Birdy: I generally don't write articles such as this, but this caught my eye, and I believe that a persons sexual desires should not be held against him/her so as long as those sexual desires is not forced upon an unwilling participant; I further believe that the Judge's actions shows a complete disregard of the law of Discrimination and a complete disrespect towards the law in general. Thus, said, I support the action to change his ruling and possibly get this beast off the bench before another episode of this type occurs, where another life will be condemned due to their personal characteristic's.




Things Not to Say to a Survivor of a Sexual Crime:


Please don't...

1. Ask if we liked it. No one likes being physically overpowered.

2. Tell us "it's just sex". Rape is a crime of power, control, and extreme violence where sex is used
as a weapon against someone weaker. It is not sex.

3. Tell us how we could have avoided it. Believe me, if we could have prevented it we would have.

4. Make fun of us. We have faced an attacker who sometimes is willing to kill and have survived. What's there to make fun of?

5. Tell us it would never happen to you and why. We didn't think we would become statistics either.

6. There's no need to avoid us. We're still the same person you've come to care about or learned to care about. We've just been unspeakably hurt. We're not contagious.

7. Please don't treat us like we have the plague. Chances are we don't. Do you?

8. God isn't punishing us for some misdeed by allowing this to happen. God helps us heal. He doesn't send someone to hurt His people.

9. Don't tell us it was God's will we were raped. Do tell us it was God's will that we survived!

10. Don't disbelieve us. According to survey respondents being disbelieved is a survivor's greatest fear.

11. Don't tell us that survivors make up tales for attention. According to The National Coalition Against Sexual Assault false rape reports only happen 2% of the time. That's a 98% chance that no matter how strange it sounds to you the rape isn't being fabricated.

12. Don't tell me not to talk about it. Yes it upsets me to talk about it but that is the only way
that I can sort through it.

13. Don't say, 'it happened on a date, that's common". When you say that it belittles me and my feelings about the assault. It's not common because it happened to me and I'm not a statistic.

14. Don't say "other people have it worse off than you". I'm not "other people". I'm me.

Some other suggestions for Partners of Survivors that may help:

15. Don't feel you need to retaliate against our attacker. We know the perpetrator is capable of violence. Please don't make us worry about you being hurt. We'll feel more secure knowing you'll remain in one piece.

16. Don't blame us for what happened. It's not our fault.

17. Don't tell us to "get over it". We would if we could and we are trying our best. Support us as we struggle to find our way again.

18. Don't tell us to to put what happened out of our minds. It's not that simple.

19. Don't tell us "it's no big deal". Rape is an enormous challenge to heal from. It haunts even our dreams.

20. Try to understand our need to feel safe. If we disagree about safety issues in the future please realize that what may sounds strange to you may help us feel safe.

21. Don't say something like, "Well, it's been six months (a year, 5 years etc.) and ask if we're "over it" yet. Chances are that we may not be ready to go back to life as it was. We may never be ready and may have to create a new life for ourselves as we learn to be safe again.

22. Don't tell us we are weak because it impacts our life. We are stronger than words can describe.

23. Don't ask us what you are supposed to do to get past what happened to us. We aren't sure what we're going to do.

24. Don't ask us if we did anything on purpose that led to the rape. We didn't do anything except survive.

25. Don't ask us if we couldn't have done something differently during the attack. We made the best choices we could to survive. We got away without being killed didn't we? That's proof our instincts were right. Please help us learn to realize that ourselves.

26. Don't tell us that it's not rape because we knew the attacker. Numerous studies tell us that our perpetrators are more likely to be known to us than unknown.

27. If you give us a hug and we pull away please know that chances are we're not rejecting you, we're just uncomfortable. We may have a hard time being able to respond right now.

28. If we do pull away from you please don't get mad. Tell us you care. Chances are you'll get that hug after all!

29. If you're together and the survivor has a flashback try not to be mad at the survivor. We hate the darned things too! Flashbacks are always rough. It's difficult to know what to do. It's got to be difficult to watch. Any anger should go the one who caused the rape and not the survivor who has to put her life together.

30. Don't be afraid to talk to us if we're upset. Knowing you are there may be just what we need.

31. If we become suicidal please don't take that as a sign of weakness. Take that as a sign we're overwhelmed, trying to cope, and need help.

32. Don't pretend rape doesn't happen to people you know. It does. Thank you for reading this to learn about it.

33. Don't get the idea rape just happens to "those" kinds of people. This crime happens to as many as 1 woman in 4. It crosses ethnic, racial, economic and social boundaries.

34. Don't be afraid of a person who was raped. I promise as a survivor, the rape will effect you but won't rub off on you. The person you love is still the same person as before.

35. Don't deny your feelings after finding out a friend was raped. Call a rape crisis center's hotline and find out what support is available for you.

36. Do not tell us we should take it as a compliment. Rape isn't about lust or attractiveness, its an act of power and force.

37. Do not tell us "Oh yeah, I know a bunch of girls who've been raped". We realize we aren’t the only ones but by saying that it belittles how it hurts by making it just another number.

38. Do not tell a survivor "Its no big deal." We know otherwise.

39. Please don't tell us "Oh well, you'll have other dates that will go better." What happened wasn't a bad date it was a crime.

40. Please have some compassion. It will go a long way towards the healing process.

THE CRIMINAL BEHAVIOR OF THE SERIAL RAPIST

NOTE FROM BIRDY:  Use caution when reading this article, younger people should not read this article as the content may be offensive to them, or in the alternate, the article should be read by an adult with the child present.  I have attempted to portray all the facts here as a third party.


From 1974 to 2009, FBI Special Agents assigned to the National Center for the Analysis of Violent Crime (NCAVC) interviewed 93 men who were responsible for raping 2819 victims. Previous issues of the FBI Law Enforcement Bulletin provided an Introduction to this research and the characteristics of the rapists and their victims. This article, however, describes the behavior of these serial rapists during and following the commission of their sexual assaults. The information presented is applicable only to the men interviewed; it is not intended to be generalized to all men who rape.

PREMEDITATION:
The majority of the sexual attacks (55-61%) committed by these men were premeditated across their first, middle, and last rapes, while fewer rapists reported their crimes as being impulsive (15-22%) or opportunistic (22-24%). Although no comparable data on serial rape are available, it is probable that the premeditation involved in these crimes is particularly characteristic of these serial rapists. It is also probable that this premeditation is reflective of their preferential interest in this type of crime and largely accounts for their ability to avoid detection.

METHODS OF APPROACH:
There are three different styles of approach rapists frequently use: The ``con,'' the ``blitz,'' and the ``surprise.'' Each reflects a different means of selecting,approaching and subduing a chosen victim.

The ``Con'' Approach: Case Number 1
Matt, a man who raped more than 20 women, told the interviewers that he stopped one of his victims late at night and identified himself as a plainclothes police officer. He asked for her driver's license and registration, walked back to his car and sat there for a few moments. He then returned to the victim, advised her that her registration had expired and asked her to accompany him to his car. She did so, and upon entering the car, he handcuffed her and drove to an isolated location where he raped and sodomized the victim.

As in the above case account, the con approach involves subterfuge and is predicated on the rapist's ability to interact with women. With this technique, the rapist openly approaches the victim and requests or offers some type of assistance or direction. However, once the victim is within his control, the offender may suddenly become more aggressive. 
 
The con approach was used in 8 (24%) of the first rapes, 12 (35%) of the middle rapes, and 14 (41%) of the last rapes. Various ploys used by the offenders included impersonating a police officer, providing transportation for a hitchhiking victim, and picking women up in singles bars. Obviously, this style of initiating contact with victims requires an ability to interact with women.

The ``Blitz'' Approach: Case Number 2
Adam, a 41-year-old male, approached a woman loading groceries in her car, struck her in the face, threw her in the vehicle and raped her. On another occasion, he entered a women's restroom in a hospital, struck his victim, and raped her in a stall. Exiting the restroom with the victim in his grasp, he threatened her as though they were involved in a lover's quarrel, and thus precluded interference from concerned onlookers who had gathered when she screamed.

In a blitz approach, the rapist uses a direct, injurious physical assault, which subdues and physically injures the victim. The attacker may also use chemicals or gases but most frequently makes use of his ability to physically overpower a woman. Interestingly, despite its simplicity, this approach was used in 23% of the first rapes, 20% of the middle rapes, and 17% of the last rapes. Even though it is used less often than the con approach, the blitz approach results in more extensive physical injury and inhibits certain fantasy components of the rape that may be arousing to the rapist.

The ``Surprise'' Approach: Case Number 3
William, a 36-year-old male, would pre-select his victims through ``peeping tom'' activities. He would then watch the victim's residence to establish her patterns. After deciding to rape the woman, he would wait until she had gone to sleep, enter the home, and place his hand over her mouth. He would advise the victim that he did not intend to harm her if she cooperated with the assault. He raped more than 20 women before he was apprehended.

The surprise approach, which involves the assailant waiting for the victim or approaching her after she is sleeping, presupposes that the rapist has targeted or pre-selected his victim through unobserved contact and knowledge of when the victim would be alone. Threats and/or the presence of a weapon are often associated with this type of approach; however, there is no actual injurious force applied.

The surprise approach was used by the serial rapists in 19 (54%) of the first rapes, 16 (46%) of the middle rapes, and 16 (44%) of the last rapes (percentages vary due to the number of rapes). This represents the most frequently used means of approach and is used most often by men who lack confidence in their ability to subdue the victim through physical threats or subterfuge.


CONTROLLING THE VICTIM:
How rapists maintain control over a victim is dependent upon two factors: Their motivation for the sexual attack and/or the passivity of the victim. Within this context, four control methods are frequently used in various combinations during a rape: 1) Mere physical presence; 2) verbal threats; 3) display of a weapon; and 4) the use of physical force. 
 
The men in this study predominantly used a threatening physical presence (82-92%) and/or verbal threats (65-80%) to control their victims. Substantially less often they displayed a weapon (44-49%) or physically assaulted the victim (27-32%). When a weapon was displayed, it was most often a sharp instrument, such as a knife (27-42%).

One rapist explained that he chose a knife because he perceived it to be the most intimidating weapon to use against women in view of their fear of disfigurement. Firearms were used less frequently (14-20%). Surprisingly, all but a few of the rapists used binding located at the scene of the rape. One exception was an individual, who brought pre-cut lengths of rope, adhesive tape and handcuffs along with him.

THE USE OF FORCE:
The amount of force used during a rape provides valuable insight into the motivations of the rapist and, hence, must be analyzed by those investigating the offense or evaluating the offender. The majority of these men (75-84%) used minimal or no physical force across all three rapes. This degree of minimal force is defined as non-injurious force employed more to intimidate than to punish. 
 
Case Number 4:
Steven began raping at 24 years of age and estimated that he had illegally entered over 5,000 homes to steal female undergarments. On 18 of those occasions, he also raped. He advised that he had no desire to harm the victims. He stated, ``Raping them is one thing. Beating on them is entirely something else. None of my victims were harmed and for a person to kill somebody after raping them, it just makes me mad.''

Force resulting in bruises and lacerations or extensive physical trauma requiring hospitalization or resulting in death increased from 5% of the first rapes, 8% of the middle rapes, to 10% of the last rapes. Two victims (5%) were murdered during the middle rapes and an additional 2 (5%) were killed during the last rapes.

Case Number 5:
David, an attractive 35-year-old male, described stabbing his mother to death when she awoke as he was attempting to remove her undergarments in preparation for sexual intercourse. He had been drinking and smoking marijuana with her for a period of time prior to the attempted sexual act, and after she fell asleep, he began fantasizing about having sex with her.

Most of the rapists in this study did not increase the amount of force they used across their first, middle and last rapes. However, 10 of the rapists, termed ``increasers,'' did use progressively greater force over successive rapes and raped twice as many women on the average (82 victims as opposed to 17 victims) in half the amount of time (i.e., raping every 8 days as opposed to 29 days). By the time of the last assault, they were inflicting moderate to fatal injuries. These factors, coupled with progressive interest in anal intercourse among the increasers, suggest that for these individuals, sexual sadism may be a motive for their assaultive behavior.

VICTIM RESISTANCE:
Victim resistance may be defined as any action or inaction on the part of the victim, which precludes or delays the offender's attack. These behaviors may be described as passive, verbal, or physical in nature. 

The rapists reported that their victims verbally resisted them in 53% of the first assaults, 54% of the middle attacks, and 43% of the last attacks. Physical resistance occurred in only 19%, 32% and 28% of the first, middle, and last rapes respectively. The relatively low incidence of passive resistance (i.e., 28% in the first rape, 17% of the middle rape, and 9% of the last rape) most likely reflects the rapists' inability to discern this type of resistance.

In previous research, it was found that there was no relationship between both verbal and physical resistance and the amount of injury sustained by the victim. Interestingly, however, the degree of the rapists' pleasure and the duration of the rape did increase when the victim resisted.

In this study, the offenders' most common reaction to resistance for the first, middle and last rapes was to verbally threaten the victim (50-41%). Compromise or negotiation took place in 11-12% across the rapes, and physical force was used in 22% of the first rapes, 38% of the second rapes and 18% of the third rapes. The rapists also reported 6 incidents in which they left when the victim resisted; however, it is not clear at what point in the attack the resistance occurred.

SEXUAL DYNAMICS OF THE RAPE:
The sexual acts that the victim was forced to engage in remained relatively constant across all three rapes. The most common acts were vaginal intercourse (54-67%), oral sex (29-44%), kissing (8-13%) and fondling (10-18%). Anal intercourse (5-10%) and foreign object penetration (3-8%) were reported less often. In assessing changes in behavior over the first, middle and last rapes, there appears to be a trend wherein the rapists' interest in oral sex increases while his interest in vaginal contact decreases.

The amount of pleasure that the rapist experienced during the three assaults was measured with the statement: ``think back to the penetration during the rape. Assuming `0' equals your worst sexual experience and `10' your absolutely best sexual experience, rate the amount of pleasure you experienced.'' The majority of rapists reported surprisingly low levels of pleasure (3.7). However, the type of contact that resulted in higher scores differed widely. One rapist reported appreciation for his victims' passivity and acquiescence, while another referred to the pleasure experienced in the rape-murder of two young boys as being ``off the scale.' 
 
Case Number 6:
Paul had raped adult women, adolescent and preadolescent girls and brought his criminal career to an end with the rape and murder of two 10-year-old boys. When asked to rate the sexual experiences, he advised that he would rate the adult and adolescent females as ``0'' and the preadolescent girls as ``3.'' He then stated, "When you're talking about sex with 10-year-old boys, your scale doesn't go high enough.''

VERBAL ACTIVITY:
Across the first, middle and last rapes, the majority of serial rapists (78-85%) usually only conversed with the victims to threaten them. Much less frequently, their conversations were polite or friendly (30-34%), manipulative (23-37%), or personal (23-37%). In a minority of instances throughout the assaults, the rapist reported being inquisitive (15-20%), abusive/ degrading (5-13%), or silent (8-13%). It appears that serial rapists use verbal threats to subdue the victim, and only after they believe they have gained control over the victim do they move on to various other modes of conversing or interacting.

SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION:
In a study of 170 rapists, it was determined that 34% experienced some type of sexual dysfunction during the rape. In fact, it has been noted that ``the occurrence of offender sexual dysfunction and an investigatory understanding of the dysfunction may provide valuable information about the unidentified rapist.''

The data on these serial rapists are strikingly similar. In the first rape, 38% of the subjects reported a sexual dysfunction, 39% in the middle rape, and 35% during the last assault. This type of information can prove helpful to the investigator in associating different offenses with a single offender, because the nature of the dysfunction and the means the offender uses to overcome it are likely to remain constant over a number of rapes.

EVADING DETECTION:
Considering the rapists' aptitude for avoiding detection, it is surprising to note that very few of the serial rapists employed specific behaviors designed to preclude identification. In fact, offenders tend to rape their victims in the victim's own home, thereby contributing to their ability to avoid detection.
In addition, the majority of rapists (61-68%) did not report dressing in any special way for the offenses. Surprisingly, disguises were reported in only 7-12% of the offenses, suggesting that these particular offenders used other means of evading detection.

ALCOHOL AND OTHER DRUGS:
Alcohol is commonly associated with rape, but other drugs, to a lesser degree, are also used at the time of the rape. The data on these rapists suggest a somewhat different relationship between alcohol/drugs and serial rape. Approximately one-third of the rapists were drinking alcoholic beverages at the time of the first, middle and last offenses, and 17-24% of the respondents reported using drugs. In a majority of these cases, these figures reflect the offender's typical consumption pattern and not an unusual increase in substance abuse. 
 
POST-OFFENSE BEHAVIOR:
The serial rapists were also asked about changes in their behavior following their assaults. The most frequent changes after each of the crimes included feeling remorseful and guilty (44-51%), following the case in the media (28%) and an increase in alcohol/drug consumption (20-27%). Investigators should also particularly note that 12-15% of rapists reported revisiting the crime scene and 8-13% communicated with the victim after the crime.

CONCLUSION:
The research concerning serial rapists' behavior during and following the commission of the crimes has determined that:

* The majority of the rapes were premeditated

* The ``con'' approach was used most often in initiating contact with the victim

* A threatening presence and verbal threats were used to maintain control over the victim

* Minimal or no force was used in the majority of instances

* The victims physically, passively or verbally resisted the rapists in slightly over 50% of the offenses

* The most common offender reaction to resistance was to verbally threaten the victim

* Slightly over one-third of the offenders experienced a sexual dysfunction, and the preferred sexual acts were vaginal rape and forced fellatio

* Low levels of pleasure were reported by the rapists from the sexual acts

* The rapists tended not to be concerned with precautionary measures to protect their identities

* Approximately one-third of the rapists had consumed alcohol prior to the crime and slightly less reported using some other drug.


The most common post-offense behavior reported by the rapists were feelings of remorse and guilt, following the case in the media and an increase in alcohol and drug consumption.

These characteristics, although not generally applicable to every rapist, can be helpful in learning more about offenders, their behaviors and the heinous crime of rape.


FOOTNOTES:
Robert R. Hazelwood & Ann w. Burgess, "An Introduction to theSerial Rapist," FBI Law Enforcement Bulletin, vol. 56, No. 9, September 1987, pp. 16-24.

Robert R. Hazelwood & Janet Warren, "The Serial Rapist: His Characteristics and Victims,: FBI Law Enforcement Bulletin, vol. 58, Nos. 1 and 2, January and February 1989, pp. 10-17 and 11-18.

Robert R. Hazelwood, R. Reboussin & J. Warren, "Serial Rape: Correlates of Increased Aggression and the Relationship of Offender Pleasure to Victim Resistance," Journal of Interpersonal Violence, March 1989, pp. 65-78; June 2009, pp. 116-138.

N.A. Groth & A. W. Burgess, "Sexual Dysfunction During Rape," New England Journal of Medicine, October 6, 1977, pp. 764-766; January 2005, pp. 201-229; August 2009, pp. 16-43.

Robert R. Hazelwood, "Analyzing the Rape and Profiling the Offender," Practical Aspects of Rape Investigations: A Multi-disciplinary Approach, R.R. Hazelwood & A.W. Burgess (Eds.)(New York: Elsevier Science Publishing Co., Inc., 1987), pp. 169-199; Second Edition, pp. 668-731.

Robert R. Hazelwood & J. Warren, "The Serial Rapist: His Characteristics and Victims," Part II, FBI Law Enforcement Bulletin, February 1989, pp. 11-18; Part IV, FBI Law Enforcement Bulletin, April 2010.

R. Rada, "Psychological Factors in Rapist Behavior," American Journal of Psychiatry, vol. 132, pp. 444-446, 1975 and R. Rada, "Psychological Factors in Rapist Behavior," Clinical Aspects of the Rapist, R. Rada (Ed.)(New York: Grune and Stratton Publishing Co., Inc., 1978), pp. 21-85; revised edition, 1999, @ pp. 320-562.


Marc Dutroux - Serial Killer

Summary:  Marc Dutroux, an unemployed electrician and father of three, committed a series of kidnappings, rapes, and killings of an unknown number of teenage girls. Dutroux and accomplices, including his wife, are considered among the most evil criminals in the history of Belgium.

Born - 6-Nov-1956
Birthplace - Brussels, Belgium
Gender - Male
Religion - Unknown
Ethnicity – White

Childhood Years: Marc Dutroux, born in Brussels, was the oldest of five children. His parents, both teachers, fought constantly and often yelled and beat Dutroux when he was a young child. Shortly after his parents separated in 1971, Dutroux left home. At age 15, he was on the streets surviving with the money he earned as a homosexual prostitute.

Marriage and Children: At the age of 19, Dutroux married and fathered two sons. The marriage did not last long and the two separated in the early 1980s. Prior to the separation Dutroux was involved with Michelle Martin who later became his second wife. The couple had three children and built a sizable portfolio that included ownership of at least seven houses, allegedly with money they got from their criminal activity.

A Mother In Fear: In February 1986, Dutroux and his then-wife Michelle Martin were sentenced to prison for the kidnapping and rape of five young girls. Dutroux was given an early release after serving just three years of his 13-year sentence. His mother wrote to the prison director stating she feared her son's release. According to the BBC, in the letter she wrote, "What I do not know, and what all the people who know him fear, it's what he has in mind for the future."

Cellar Dungeons:  After Dutroux's release from prison in 1989, he convinced a psychiatrist to declare him as disabled, offering him the opportunity to receive a government pension and also sleeping pills and sedatives that he later used on his victims. He also began the construction of a dungeon type room in the basement of one of his homes that he concealed behind a heavy door lined with shelving.

The Killing Begins: On June 24, 1995, Dutroux kidnapped two eight-year-old girls, Julie Lejeune and Melissa Russon and kept them in his cellar dungeon where they were subjected to repeated sexual abuse and used to produce pornographic videos. In August, 17-year-old Ann Marchal and 19-year-old Eefje Lambrechts were kidnapped by Dutroux and bound in the upstairs bedroom in the same house were the children were being kept. Both teens were killed several weeks later although specific details were never discovered.

Left To Starve: Dutroux was making money by dealing drugs and stealing luxury cars. He continued to keep the two children captive in the basement but when he was arrested for car theft and kept in police custody, he left the care of the children the responsibility of his accomplices. From December 6, 1995 until March 20, 1996, Dutroux was incarcerated. It is believed that during this time, Lejeune and Russo were never fed, eventually causing the two to starve to death in Dutroux's basement.

An Eye Witness: On May 28, 1996, 12-year-old Sabine Dardenne was kidnapped and placed in the basement dungeon by Dutroux and possibly his accomplice Lelievre. Three months later, on August 9, 1996, 14-year-old Laetitia Delhez was on here way home from a public swimming pool when the pair allegedly kidnapped her and kept her in the dungeon with Dardenne. However, this time the police had an eye witness who gave police a part of the license plate that investigators were able to match to Dutroux.
Confessions:  On August 13, 1996, Dutroux, Martin and Lelievre were placed under arrest. A search of Dutroux's home failed to uncover Dardenne. While still in police custody, Dutroux and Lelievre confessed to the kidnapping and directed police to the dungeon where Dardeene and Delhez were found alive. He then led them to the bodies of Julie Lejeune and Melissa Russo. Along with them was the body of Bernard Weinstein, Dutroux's accomplice who Dutroux drugged, crushed his testicles then buried him alive.

Public Outcry: As the atrocities of the crimes were disclosed, the public became very critical of the way the authorities handled the case. Failure to properly search Dutrox's home in December 1995 may have resulted in the deaths of LeJeune and Russo since they were alive in the dungeon when the police searched the home. One officer said he heard a child crying while performing the search.

Authorities were also criticized for not following up on leads including an informant who reported that Dutroux had offered him money to bring him girls who would be kept in a cell Dutroux was building in his basement. Dutroux's mother also wrote to authorities also wrote to authorities telling them her son was holding young girls captive in his home.

Other errors were made delaying prosecution of Dutroux and his accomplices resulting in a protest march of over 300,000 Belgian citizens that earned the name, The White March and influenced reform of the Belgium judicial and police system.

Rumors of a Satanic Cult Surface: Rumors of Dutroux's involvement in a Satanic network of pedophiles that included some of Belgium's most elite, spread throughout the country. Parents of some of Dutroux's victims believed this and the rumor seemed to be fueled by Dutroux who was more than willing to try to bring members of the police and the court system down with him.

Finally Justice Is Served: Dutroux's case did not go to trial until March 1, 2004, nearly eight years after his arrest. On Jun 17, 2004, Dutroux, Martin and Lelievre were found guilty on all charges.

Dutroux was sentenced to life in prison, Martin received 30 years, and Lelievre received 25 years.

Defining Dutroux: Four psychologist evaluated Dutroux and agreed that he is an “antisocial psychopath” rather than a pedophile. The age of his victims was not important to him. It merely made them an easier target to kidnap and control.
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