Hmong: 12 kauj ruam - Yuav ua li cas hais tias ib tug pedophile

Paub txog qhov profile ntawm ib tug me nyuam molester thiab tiv thaiv koj tus me nyuam los ntawm cov ua npua

Tag nrho cov niam txiv xav kom tiv thaiv lawv cov me nyuam los ntawm txhom, tab sis ua li cas koj kom koj cov me nyuam muaj kev nyab xeeb thaum koj tsis paub yuav ua li cas hnov ​​ib tug? Leej twg los yeej yog ib tug menyuam molester los yog ib tug pedophile, yog li paub ib tug yuav tau yooj yim - tshwj xeeb tshaj yog vim hais tias cov me nyuam ua phem rau chiv ntseeg feem ntau tus me nyuam molesters los yog pedophiles. Nyeem rau kawm uas coj cwjpwm thiab sijhawm yog liab chij, yog dab tsi lub sijhawm kom tsis txhob, thiab yuav ua li cas mus rau deter tus me nyuam molesters los ntawm hom phiaj koj tus me nyuam.

Cuaj kaum, nco ntsoov, tsis yog txhua txhua pedophiles yog tus me nyuam molesters, thiab muaj kev xav txog cov me nyuam yog tsis tau tib yam li sawv lawv. Ntxiv mus, ib tug neeg uas yog zoo dua nyob rau interacting nrog cov me nyuam tshaj li nrog cov neeg laus tsis yog tas ib tug pedophile. Wrongly accusing ib tug neeg uas pedophilia yuav ua rau mob loj heev depressions thiab kev ntxhov siab.

Kauj ruam 1: To taub tias ib tug neeg laus yuav ua tau ib tug me nyuam molester. Yog tsis muaj ib lub cev yam ntxwv, tsos, txoj hauj lwm, los yog tus cwj pwm hom uas tag nrho cov me nyuam molesters sib qhia. Tus me nyuam molesters yuav ua tau tej txiv neej pw los yog haiv neeg, thiab lawv tej kev koom ua pab pawg, cov hauj lwm thiab yam uas koj nyiam yog li muaj ntau haiv neeg ua rau lwm tus. Ib tug me nyuam molester zaum yuav tshwm sim tau charming, hlub, thiab tag zoo-natured thaum cooj predatory xav hais tias nws los yog nws yog adept nyob rau ntawm lub qho. Txhais tau tias koj yuav tsum tsis txhob tso lub tswv yim uas ib tug neeg yuav tsum muaj ib tug me nyuam molester tawm ntawm txhais tes.

Kauj ruam 2: Paub tias feem ntau cov me nyuam molesters paub rau cov me nyuam ua phem rau. Peb caug feem pua ​​ntawm cov me nyuam uas tau raug kev sib deev ua phem rau tau ua phem rau los ntawm ib tug neeg hauv tsev neeg, thiab 60 feem pua ​​tau ua phem rau los ntawm ib tug neeg laus uas lawv paub uas tsis yog ib tug neeg hauv tsev neeg. Nws txhais tau tias tsuas yog 10 feem pua ​​ntawm cov me nyuam uas yog kev sib deev ua phem rau tau tsom los ntawm ib tug tag nrho cov Hmoob. Nyob rau hauv feem ntau tus neeg mob, tus me nyuam molester hloov tawm mus rau ib tug neeg hu mus rau tus me nyuam los tsev kawm ntawv los yog lwm cov kev ua, xws li ib tug neeg nyob ze, cov xib fwb, tsheb loj thauj neeg, tug xib hwb, suab paj nruag li tus xibfwb qhia, los yog neeg zov me nyuam. Tsev neeg zoo li niam, txiv, pog, yawg, tus txiv ntxawm, txiv ntxawm, kwv tij txheeb ze, stepparents, thiab thiaj mus yuav kuj yuav sib deev ua npua.
   Kauj ruam 3: Paub cov yam ntxwv ntawm ib tug me nyuam molester. Thaum muaj leej twg yuav tig mus ua ib tug me nyuam molester, feem ntau ntawm cov me nyuam molesters cov txiv neej, tsis hais seb lawv cov neeg raug yog txiv neej los yog poj niam. Kev sib deev ntau ua npua muaj ib tug keeb kwm ntawm kev tsim txom nyob rau hauv lawv tus kheej yav tag los, nqaij daim tawv los yog kev sib deev. Ib txhia kuj muaj kev puas hlwb, xws li ib tug mus ob peb vas los yog tus cwj pwm tsis meej. Heterosexual thiab homosexual cov txiv neej yog Attendance tej zaum yuav muaj tus me nyuam molesters. Lub tswv yim tias homosexual txiv neej muaj ntau yuav tsum tus me nyuam molesters yog ib tug ua tiav tswvyim hais ua dabneeg. Poj niam me nyuam molesters yog feem ntau yuav ua phem rau cov tub hluas tshaj cov ntxhais.

    Kauj ruam 4: Yuav tsum paub txog ntawm ntau cwj pwm ua los ntawm tus me nyuam molesters. Pedophile tus me nyuam molesters feem ntau tsis tso saib ntau li ntau txaus siab nyob rau cov neeg laus li lawv ua nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam. Tej zaum lawv yuav muaj cov hauj lwm uas tso cai rau lawv mus yuav nyob ib ncig ntawm cov me nyuam ntawm ib tug tej yam muaj hnub nyoog pab pawg neeg, los yog contrive lwm txoj kev los siv lub sij hawm nrog cov me nyuam los ntawm kuj yog ib tug cob qhia, neeg zov me nyuam los yog tus neeg nyob ze sim los pab. Tus me nyuam molesters yuav tham txog los yog kho cov me nyuam li tab sis lawv yog cov neeg laus. Tej zaum lawv yuav xa mus rau ib tug me nyuam raws li lawv yuav xa mus rau ib tug neeg laus los yog tus phooj ywg tus hlub. Pedophile tus me nyuam molesters feem ntau hais tias lawv hlub tag nrho cov me nyuam los yog xav tias li tab sis lawv tseem me nyuam.

Kauj ruam 5: Ntsia tej cim ntawm tu yus. Lub sij hawm "tu" yog hais txog cov txheej txheem tus me nyuam molester undertakes kom txais tau ib tus me nyuam txoj kev cia siab rau, thiab tej zaum kuj yog cov niam txiv 'cia siab rau raws li tau zoo. Nyob rau ntawm lub hlis los yog txawm xyoo, ib tug me nyuam molester yuav nce los ua ib tug phooj ywg ntawm lub tsev neeg, muab rau babysit, coj cov me nyuam khw los yog rau mus ncig ua si, los sis siv sij hawm nrog tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv lwm txoj kev. Muaj ntau tus me nyuam molesters yuav tsis tau pib ua phem rau ib tug me nyuam kom txog rau thaum kev ntseeg siab tau tau. Ib txhia tej zaum yuav siv rau lwm tus neeg kev xav nyob ib ncig ntawm lawv yuav rov qab mus lawv trustworthiness nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav coj cov me nyuam khw. Tus me nyuam molesters saib rau cov me nyuam uas lam tau lam ua lawv tactics vim hais tias lawv tsis muaj kev them nyiaj yug los yog tsis tau txais txaus mloog hauv tsev los yog yuav sim mus hais rau cov niam txiv lawv cov me nyuam muaj kev ruaj ntseg nrog lawv thiab hais tias lawv yuav tsis mus deb. Tus me nyuam molester yuav sim mus rau kauj ruam nyob rau hauv raws li lub "niam txiv" daim duab rau cov me nyuam. Ib txhia me nyuam molesters prey rau cov me nyuam ntawm ib cov niam txiv uas yog tsis muaj nyob rau cov muab ntau li ntau saib xyuas los yog hais cov niam txiv hais tias lawv yog zoo txaus cov neeg los saib xyuas tsis tau lawv. Ib tug me nyuam molester yuav feem ntau siv ib tug ntau yam ntawm kev ua si, tricks, kev ua si thiab cov lus yuav ua tau kom sib ntseeg siab thiab / los sis dag ib tug me nyuam. Cov muaj xws li: cia ntawm secrets (secrets yog tseem ceeb rau feem ntau cov me nyuam, tau pom raws li ib yam dab tsi "neeg laus" thiab ib qhov chaw ntawm lub hwj chim), kev sib deev tsi ntsees cov kev ua si, fondling, hnia, kov, ua plees ua yi tus cwj pwm, raug lead lom ib tug me nyuam rau duab liab qab cov ntaub ntawv uas, yuam kom ua thiab , kev xiab nyiaj, uas tsis tseeb ntxias, thiab-phem tshaj ntawm tag nrho cov-hlub thiab kev hlub. Yuav tsum paub txog tias cov tactics yog thaum kawg siv cais tawm thiab yam koj tus me nyuam.

Kauj ruam 6: Nrhiav kom paub seb tus txiv neej pw ua txhaum nyob rau hauv koj lub zej zog. Koj siv tau cov US Department of Justice National Txhom Neeg Txiag Database (nyob ntawm www.nsopw.gov/en-US) los mus txiav txim seb puas muaj sau npe nrog txiv neej pw txhaum nyob rau hauv koj cheeb tsam. Txhua yam koj yuav tau ua yog nkag mus rau koj tus zauv zip code thiab ua ib tug tshawb, thiab koj yuav tsum tau mus saib qhov twg tus me nyuam molesters yuav nyob. Koj kuj ua ib tug kev tshawb fawb rau ib tug neeg npe rau saib yog tias ib lub neeg yog ib tug txiv neej ua txhaum. Nws yog zoo yuav tsum paub txog tej zaum txhom, tab sis twb paub lawm hais tias nws yog txhaum cai rau noj txhua yam ntawm txiav txim tawm tsam sau npe nrog txiv neej pw ua txhaum uas tau txais kev pab nws los yog nws kab lus.

   Kauj ruam 7: saib xyuas koj tus me nyuam txoj kev kawm ntxiv. Ua raws li kev koom tes raws li tau nyob rau hauv koj tus me nyuam lub neej yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws txoj kev uas yuav tiv thaiv tus me nyuam molesters. Lawv yuav nrhiav ib tug me nyuam uas yog lam tau lam ua thiab uas yog tsis tau txais ib tug ntau ntawm cov xim los ntawm nws los yog nws niam thiab txiv los yog yuav hais cov niam txiv lawv tsis muaj kev phom sij rau lawv tus me nyuam. Qhia txog ntawm kev ua si, kev coj thiab tshua, chaperone teb mus ncig ua si thiab mus ua si tawm, thiab siv sij hawm ntau mus kom paub cov neeg laus nyob rau hauv koj tus me nyuam lub neej. Muab nws ntshiab uas koj yog ib tug muab kev koom tes, tam sim no leej niam leej txiv. Yog hais tias koj tsis tau muaj rau ib qho chaw twg los yog kev mus ua si, kom paub tseeb tias, yam tsawg kawg ob tus neeg laus koj paub zoo yuav tau chaperoning ib tug mus txawv tebchaws. Tsis txhob cia koj tus me nyuam nyob ib leeg nrog cov neeg laus koj tsis paub zoo. Txawm cov kwv tij yuav ua rau ib tug kev hem thawj. Lub ntsiab yog yuav raws li tam sim no raws li sai tau.

Kauj ruam 8: Teem ib lub neeg ntiav zov menyuam cam tias koj ntiav ib tug neeg zov me nyuam. Muaj tej lub sij hawm thaum koj tsis muaj peev xwm yuav tam sim no, li ntawd, siv lwm yam cuab yeej kom paub tseeb tias koj tus me nyuam yog muaj kev ruaj ntseg. Teem ib tug thaum lub koob yees duab nyob rau hauv koj lub tsev li ntawd tsis tau tsim nyog ua si yuav yuav ntes tau. Tsis muaj teeb meem li cas zoo rau koj xav tias koj paub ib tug neeg, koj yuav tsum coj yuav tau ceev faj rau koj tus me nyuam txoj kev nyab xeeb.

Kauj ruam 9: Qhia koj tus me nyuam txog nyob ruaj ntseg hauv internet. Xyuas kom tseeb tias koj tus me nyuam paub hais tias txhom feem ntau teeb raws li cov me nyuam los yog cov hluas nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav tau ntxias cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv online. Saib xyuas koj tus me nyuam siv lub internet, kom cov kev cai nyob rau hauv qhov chaw zoo kom tsis txhob nws los yog nws "sib tham" lub sij hawm. Muaj cov kev sib tham nrog koj tus menyuam txog leej twg yog nws los yog nws yog sib txuas lus nrog hauv internet. Nco ntsoov koj tus me nyuam paub yeej tsis xa duab mus rau ib tug neeg nws los yog nws tau ntsib hauv internet, los yog ntsib ib tug neeg nws los yog nws yog sib txuas lus nrog hauv internet. Paub tias me nyuam yaus secretive txog online tus cwj pwm, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum txhawb los ntawm lwm leej lwm tus kom secrets, yog li ntawd koj yuav tsum tau ceev faj ntawm txog nyob muab kev koom tes nyob rau hauv koj tus menyuam lub hauv internet ua si.
Kauj ruam 10: Xyuas kom tseeb tias koj tus me nyuam yog lawm kev xav txaus siab.

Tus me nyuam molesters yuav kom cov me nyuam kom nws tsis pub leejtwg paub los ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv. Xyuas kom koj tus me nyuam to taub tias yog hais tias ib tug neeg tau hais kom lawv mus kom ib tug pub leejtwg paub los ntawm koj tias nws tsis yog vim hais tias tus me nyuam yuav tau txais mus rau hauv cov teeb meem, tiam sis tus neeg uas tau hais kom lawv ceev zais cia paub lawv ua dab tsi rau lawv yog tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Txij thaum cov me nyuam uas tsis tau txais ib tug ntau ntawm cov xim yog tshwj xeeb tshaj yog lam tau lam ua rau txhom, kom paub tseeb tias koj yog siv ib tug ntau ntawm cov sij hawm nrog koj tus me nyuam thiab hais tias nws los yog nws yim txaus siab. Siv lub sij hawm los tham rau koj tus me nyuam txhua txhua hnub thiab ua hauj lwm rau lub tsev qho kev qhib, kev cia siab rau kev sib raug zoo. Qhia paj nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov ntawm koj tus me nyuam cov kev ua ub, xws li ntawv, extracurriculars, yam uas koj nyiam, thiab lwm yam kev txaus. Cia koj tus me nyuam paub hais tias nws los yog nws yuav qhia koj dab tsi, thiab hais tias koj yeej ib txwm kam los tham.

Kauj ruam 11: Qhia koj tus me nyuam kom paub txog tej kov ub kov no. Ntau cov niam txiv siv cov "zoo kov, phem kov, tsis pub leejtwg paub kov" txoj kev. Nws yuav qhia koj tus me nyuam uas muaj ib co tsim nyog touches, zoo li pats nyob tom qab los yog siab fives; muaj ib co mas los yog "phem 'nphav, zoo li hits los yog pib; thiab kuj muaj kev tuav touches, uas yog touches tias tus me nyuam yog hais kom ib tug pub leejtwg paub. Siv txoj kev no los yog lwm tus los qhia koj tus me nyuam tias ib txhia touches yog tsis zoo, thiab thaum twg cov tshwm sim, nws yuav tsum qhia rau koj sai li sai tau. Qhia koj tus me nyuam uas tsis muaj ib tug yog tso cai rau kov nws los yog nws nyob rau hauv private chaw. Muaj ntau cov niam txiv txhais private chaw raws li cov neeg uas yuav tsum tau them los ntawm ib tug da dej ce. Cov me nyuam kuj yuav tsum tau paub ib tug neeg laus yuav tsum tsis txhob nug ib tug me nyuam mus kov lwm tus private los sis lawv tus kheej. Qhia rau koj tus me nyuam hais tias "tsis muaj" thiab mus kev deb yog tias ib tug neeg nws mus kov nws los yog nws nyob rau hauv ib tug ntiav cheeb tsam. Qhia rau koj tus me nyuam los rau koj tam sim ntawd yog ib tug neeg nphav nws los yog nws tsis ncaj ncees lawm txoj kev.

Kauj ruam 12: Nco thaum ib yam dab tsi yog disharmonious nrog koj tus me nyuam. Yog hais tias koj pom koj tus me nyuam yog sawv txawv, caum qhov teeb meem mus nrhiav tau tawm yog dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Tsis tu ncua, nug koj tus menyuam cov lus nug txog nws los yog nws hnub, xws li nug seb puas muaj "zoo, zoo" "phem los yog" tsis pub leejtwg paub "touches tshwm sim rau hnub ntawd, yuav pab qhib cov kab ntawm kev sib txuas lus. Tsis txhob tso nws mus, yog hais tias koj tus me nyuam qhia rau koj tias nws los yog nws yog kov cia los yog tsis ntseeg ib tug neeg laus. Ntseeg koj tus me nyuam ua ntej. Tsis txhob tso tus me nyuam neeg pab leg ntaubntawv vim hais tias cov neeg laus nyob rau hauv lo lus nug yog ib tug muaj nuj nqis neeg ntawm haiv neeg los yog zoo nkaus li tsis txog tej yam. Qhov ntawd yog raws nraim li cas ib tug me nyuam molester xav. Nco ntsoov hais tias lub feem ntau ib qho tseem ceeb tshaj uas koj yuav ua los tiv thaiv koj tus me nyuam yog them sai sai mus rau lawv. Soj ntsuam seb ua lawv xav tau kev pab thiab kev ntshaw, tham nrog lawv, thiab nyob rau hauv essence, cia li yuav qhov zoo tshaj plaws niam txiv koj tejzaum yuav. Qab kab yuav tsum nco ntsoov: Yog hais tias koj tsis them sai sai rau koj tus me nyuam, ib tug neeg lwm tus yuav. Ntxiv mus, nco ntsoov hais tias cov me nyuam nyob ib ncig ntawm 12 xyoo yuav tsum twb tau pom txiv neej pw kawm ntawv, los ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv thiab hais li cas txhua yam txhais tau hais tias / yog hu ua. Qhov no yuav tiv thaiv tau ib tug xib fwb / tus phooj ywg uas yog ib tug pedophile, noj lub coj thiab qhia tag nrho lwm yam. Xyuas kom tseeb tias koj tus me nyuam twb paub txhua yam nws xav tau kev pab kom paub, ua ntej nws yuav qhia sib txawv heev lub ntsiab ntawm lo lus los yog tau hais tias hnia / yaim tus kws qhia ntawv lub sab plhu yog lig zoo. Yog hais tias tus me nyuam yog tub ntxhais hluas heev los yog yau dua 14 xyoos, tej zaum lawv yuav tsis paub txog hais tias muaj yog ib tug sib txawv ntawm ib tug xib fwb qhia ntawv muab grumpy ntxiv homework, los yog ib tug coj txawv txawv acting kws qhia ntawv hais xav kom lawv mus nwj tus sab plhu ua ntej tawm hauv lub chav tsev. Ob yam no rau lawv 'annoying.' Yog li ntawd kom paub tseeb tias yog thaum twg koj tus me nyuam qhia rau koj vague dab neeg hais txog cov xib fwb ua nrog txiv neej pw-txoj kev tso dag los yog kov lawv, los yog ua 'annoying' thiab nug tag nrho cov hom ntawm 'private khoom' hais tias muaj tej zaum yuav ib yam dab tsi yuav mus.

Sai li sai tau raws li tus me nyuam hais rau tus xib fwb yog sawv coj txawv txawv los yog nug tus kheej info - duab - tej yam hais txog cov nus muag, koj yuav tsum qhia rau koj tus me nyuam yuav ua li cas rau li cas rau qhov no. Yuav muaj tiag nyob rau hauv qhov mus kom ze! Qhia koj tus me nyuam mus quaj qw nrov nrov thaum tus kws qhia nphav lawv xub pwg, los yog ntaus nws txhais tes thiab qw thaum twg nws xav kov lawv rov qab, yuav pab tsis tau. Lawv yuav tsis ntaus ib tug xib fwb qhia ntawv, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tsis yog thaum lawv tab tom tu cev thiab hais rau nws no xwb sim los pab. Xyuas kom tseeb tias lawv yuav qhia rau nws kom meej meej hais tias nws tau hais rau nws niam thiab txiv hais txog dab tsi tshwm sim thiab lawv tsis zoo siab nrog nws. Nyob rau lwm cov tes, muab tus me nyuam ib lub hnab ntawv, uas muaj ib tsab ntawv uas hais tias; 'Tsis txhob kov kuv tus ntxhais / tub' thiab koj kos npe. Xyuas kom tseeb tias lawv muab pub rau nws thaum nws yog kov ib tug phem ib feem ntawm lawv lub cev thiab tsis tau nres thaum lawv hais tias nres. (Xyuas kom tseeb tias koj xav tias hais txog qhov no, nws yuav tsuas muaj ib tug zoo ntxim yog koj paub nws yuav tau uas raug nqi ntau rau ib thaj tsam thiab yog ua tau mus dhau deb. Ib tug lam ua tes rau lub xub pwg tsis yog.

Nco ntsoov peb cov me nyuam yog peb cov neej yav tom ntej; kom zoo yog txoj hauj lwm ntawm cov neeg laus, rau tsis muaj lawv, peb yuav tsis muaj yav tom ntej. - Noog
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