The History of Megan's Law

The History of Megan's Law
Law Named After Megan Kanka of New Jersey
By Thomas “Birdy” McKee,

Megan's Law is a federal law passed in 1996 that authorizes local law enforcement agencies to notify the public about convicted sex offenders living, working or visiting their communities.

Megan's Law was inspired by the case of seven-year-old Megan Kanka, a New Jersey girl who was raped and killed by a known child molester who moved across the street from the family. The Kanka family fought to have local communities warned about sex offenders in the area. The New Jersey legislature passed Megan's Law in 1994.

In 1996, the U.S. Congress passed Megan's Law as an amendment to the Jacob Wetterling Crimes Against Children's Act. It required every state to develop some procedure for notifying the public when a sex offender is released into their community. Different states have different procedures for making the required disclosures.

The federal law was not the first on the books that addressed the issue of registering convicted sex offenders. As early as 1947, California had laws that required sex offenders to be registered. Since the passage of the federal law in May of 1996, all states have passed some form of Megan's Law.

Victimization is Increasing

Victimization is Increasing

Frequently Asked Questions About Sexual Abuse

Question:
Is sexual offending on the increase or is there just more reporting?

Answer:
We do not really know. Because most sexual offenses go unreported, it is difficult to tell. There is speculation among many in the field that the implementation of new laws related to the registration and community notification of convicted sex offenders may cause an even higher rate of under reporting (remember, most victims know their assailants and many may not want to subject them to public scrutiny). However, according to the National Crime Victimization Survey, victimization is increasing. In 1996, there were 307,100 victimization's of rape and sexual assault, and in 1999, there were 383,170 victimization's (an increase of 12.5%).

Source: National Rape Prevention Center

Helping Victims of Sexual Assault

Helping Victims of Sexual Assault

Frequently Asked Questions About Sexual Abuse

Question:

I do not know how to help a friend who has been sexually assaulted.

Answer:
Listening to your friend without judging his or her choices is the best thing you can do. Reinforce the message that your friend is not to blame for what happened. Be sensitive to new fears and behaviors associated with the assault (such as avoiding crowds or feeling unsafe in previously comfortable locations). Most importantly, give your friend time to heal and let him or her know you are there to listen whenever needed.

Source: Conversations with Convicted Rapist

Protect Yourself Against Sexual Assault

Protect Yourself Against Sexual Assault
It's All About Control, Degradation, and Violence
Sexual assault is any unwanted, non-consensual, forced sexual contact or activity which purpose is to control and/or humiliate another person. It can include acts of touching, kissing exhibitionism, and intercourse — anal, vaginal or oral.

There are ways you can help prevent a sexual assault. According to the New York Police Detective Bureau, this includes being alert to your surroundings. Know the location, street name, surrounding buildings, in case it becomes necessary for you to call 911. Listen to your instincts. If you feel uncomfortable or in danger in any given situation, leave immediately.

Learn to be observant of people around you. What color eyes do they have? What are they wearing? Notice their teeth, tattoos, their size, hairstyle, or any other distinguishable features. All these will help you in the event it becomes necessary to contact the police.

Making Your Home Safe
Avoid sleeping with your windows open.

Have peep holes on your doors and use them. If you do not recognize who is at your door, do not open it, even with the chain on. Most chain locks can easily be kicked in.

Do not open the door to service people unless you are expecting them. Call their employer and verify their identity and the reason they need to enter your home.
If a stranger asks to use your phone, do not let the person enter. Offer to make the call for them.

Do not buzz someone into the building or hold the lobby door open unless you know the person.

Have the number to 911 programmed into your telephone.

Be mentally prepared of the possibility of being attacked and what possible actions you would take if confronted.

Install safety approved gates or bars on windows that can be reached from fire escapes on from the ground floor.

In your home or apartment, you will also want to make sure your entrance is well lit. Install security lights in areas where people can hide. Keep your doors locked and blinds pulled. Do not advertise your full name in the phone book on the mailbox. Your initials and last name are all that is needed. Invest in a paper shredder and shred any personal identifying envelopes or papers.

Source: New York City Detective Bureau

Myths About Sexual Assault: It's Never the Victim's Fault

Myths About Sexual Assault: It's Never the Victim's Fault

Victims of sexual assault often experience an overwhelming feeling of vulnerability, violation, and powerless. Many blame themselves, reliving the experience to see how they could have changed the outcome.
Rape is never the victim's fault. There are many other myths surrounding rape and sexual assault, according to the New York City Police Detective Bureau. Here are some of the most common:

Myths About Sexual Assault

Myth: Rape is a sexual crime.
False - Sexual assault is a violent assault acted out in a sexual way.

Myth: The victims "ask for it" by their dress.
False - No one "asks" to be assaulted. In addition, when most attackers decide to assault someone, how they are dressed is of little consequence.

Myth: Sex crimes are crimes of passion or desire.
False - Sex crime is a crime of violence, anger and power not passion.

Myth: Sexual offenders commit these crimes because they never have sex.
False - Many sex offenders are married and engage in normal sexual relations with their partners. The reason they sexually assault their victims is because they get gratification from intimidating, humiliating and degrading their victims.

Myth: It's easy to spot a sex offender. They are creepy and have shifty eyes.
False - Sex offenders come from all walks of life and ethnic backgrounds, sex, and age. Do not let your guard down on first impressions.

Myth: Women claim rape to get even with men.
False - Although it may happen on rare occasions, false rape charges are on the least reported crimes, nationwide.

Myth: The victims secretly want to be raped.
False - Fear of ones life, or disfigurement to oneself or a loved one can immobilize anyone. Always remember, the goal is to survive the attack.
Source: New York City Detective Bureau

Protect Yourself Against Sexual Assault
It's All About Control, Degradation, and Violence

Sexual assault is any unwanted, non consensual, forced sexual contact or activity which purpose is to control and/or humiliate another person. It can include acts of touching, kissing exhibitionism, and intercourse — anal, vaginal or oral.

There are ways you can help prevent a sexual assault. According to the New York Police Detective Bureau, this includes being alert to your surroundings. Know the location, street name, surrounding buildings, in case it becomes necessary for you to call 911. Listen to your instincts. If you feel uncomfortable or in danger in any given situation, leave immediately.

Learn to be observant of people around you. What color eyes do they have? What are they wearing? Notice their teeth, tattoos, their size, hairstyle, or any other distinguishable features. All these will help you in the event it becomes necessary to contact the police.

Making Your Home Safe

Avoid sleeping with your windows open.
Have peep holes on your doors and use them. If you do not recognize who is at your door, do not open it, even with the chain on. Most chain locks can easily be kicked in.

Do not open the door to service people unless you are expecting them. Call their employer and verify their identity and the reason they need to enter your home.
If a stranger asks to use your phone, do not let the person enter. Offer to make the call for them.

Do not buzz someone into the building or hold the lobby door open unless you know the person.

Have the number to 911 programmed into your telephone.

Be mentally prepared of the possibility of being attacked and what possible actions you would take if confronted.

Install safety approved gates or bars on windows that can be reached from fire escapes on from the ground floor.

In your home or apartment, you will also want to make sure your entrance is well lit. Install security lights in areas where people can hide. Keep your doors locked and blinds pulled. Do not advertise your full name in the phone book on the mailbox. Your initials and last name are all that is needed. Invest in a paper shredder and shred any personal identifying envelopes or papers.

Helping Victims of Sexual Assault
Frequently Asked Questions About Sexual Abuse

Question:
I do not know how to help a friend who has been sexually assaulted.

Answer:
Listening to your friend without judging his or her choices is the best thing you can do. Reinforce the message that your friend is not to blame for what happened. Be sensitive to new fears and behaviors associated with the assault (such as avoiding crowds or feeling unsafe in previously comfortable locations). Most importantly, give your friend time to heal and let him or her know you are there to listen whenever needed.

Victimization is Increasing:

Frequently Asked Questions About Sexual Abuse and Sex Crimes

Question:

Is sexual offending on the increase or is there just more reporting?

Answer:
I do not really know. Because most sexual offenses go unreported, it is difficult to tell. There is speculation among many in the field that the implementation of new laws related to the registration and community notification of convicted sex offenders may cause an even higher rate of under reporting (remember, most victims know their assailants and many may not want to subject them to public scrutiny). However, according to the National Crime Victimization Survey, victimization is increasing. In 1996, there were 307,100 victimization's of rape and sexual assault, and in 1999, there were 383,170 victimization's (an increase of 12.5%).

History of Megan's Law:

Law Named After Megan Kanka of New Jersey

Megan's Law is a federal law passed in 1996 that authorizes local law enforcement agencies to notify the public about convicted sex offenders living, working or visiting their communities.

Megan's Law was inspired by the case of seven-year-old Megan Kanka, a New Jersey girl who was raped and killed by a known child molester who moved across the street from the family. The Kanka family fought to have local communities warned about sex offenders in the area. The New Jersey legislature passed Megan's Law in 1994.

In 1996, the U.S. Congress passed Megan's Law as an amendment to the Jacob Wetterling Crimes Against Children's Act. It required every state to develop some procedure for notifying the public when a sex offender is released into their community. Different states have different procedures for making the required disclosures.

The federal law was not the first on the books that addressed the issue of registering convicted sex offenders. As early as 1947, California had laws that required sex offenders to be registered. Since the passage of the federal law in May of 1996, all states have passed some form of Megan's Law.

Profile of a Pedophile

Pedophiles Can Be Anyone:
Pedophiles can be anyone -- old or young, rich or poor, educated or uneducated, non-professional or professional, and of any race. However, pedophiles often demonstrate similar characteristics, but these are merely indicators and it should not be assumed that individuals with these characteristics are pedophiles. But knowledge of these characteristics coupled with questionable behavior can be used as an alert that someone may be a pedophile.
Characteristics of a Pedophile:

Often the pedophile is male and over 30 years of age.

Single or with few friends in his age group.

If married, the relationship is more "companion" based with no sexual relations.
He is often vague about time gaps in employment which may indicate a loss in employment for questionable reasons or possible past incarceration.

Pedophiles Like Child-like Activities:
He is often fascinated with children and child activities appearing to prefer those activities to adult oriented activities.

He will often refer to children in pure or angelic terms using descriptive's like innocent, heavenly, divine, pure, and other words that describe children but seem inappropriate and exaggerated.

He has hobbies that are child-like such as collecting popular expensive toys, keeping reptiles or exotic pets, or building plane and car models.

Pedophiles Often Prefer Children Close to Puberty:
Pedophiles often have a specific age of child they target. Some prefer younger children, some older. Often his environment or a special room will be decorated in child-like decor and will appeal to the age and sex of the child he is trying to entice.

Many pedophiles often prefer children close to puberty who are sexually inexperienced, but curious about sex.

Pedophiles Work Around Children:
The pedophile will often be employed in a position that involves daily contact with children. If not employed, he will put himself in a position to do volunteer work with children, often in a supervisory capacity such as sports coaching, contact sport instruction, unsupervised tutoring or a position where he has the opportunity to spend unsupervised time with a child.

The Target Child:
The pedophile often seeks out shy, handicapped, and withdrawn children, or those who come from troubled homes or under privileged homes. He then showers them with attention, gifts, taunting them with trips to desirable places like amusement parks, zoo's, concerts, the beach and other such places.

Manipulation of the Innocent:
Pedophiles work to master their manipulative skills and often unleash them on troubled children by first becoming their friend, building the the child's self esteem. They may refer to the child as special or mature, appealing to their need to be heard and understood then entice them with adult type activities that are often sexual in content such as x-rated movies or pictures. They offer them alcohol or drugs to hamper their ability to resist activities or recall events that occurred.

Stockholm Syndrome :
It is not unusual for the child to develop feelings for the predator and desire their approval and continued acceptance. They will compromise their innate ability to decipher good and bad behavior, ultimately justifying the criminal's bad behavior out of sympathy and concern for the adults welfare. This is often compared to Stockholm Syndrome - when victims become attached emotionally to their captors.

The Single Parent:
Many times pedophiles will develop a close relationship with a single parent in order to get close to their children. Once inside the home, they have many opportunities to manipulate the children -- using guilt, fear, and love to confuse the child. If the child's parent works, it offers the pedophile the private time needed to abuse the child.

Fighting Back:
Pedophiles work hard at stalking their targets and will patiently work to develop relationships with them. It is not uncommon for them to be developing a long list of potential victims at any one time. Many of them believe that what they are doing is not wrong and that having sex with a child is actually "healthy" for the child.

Almost all pedophiles have a collection of pornography, which they protect at all costs. Many of them also collect "souvenirs" from their victims. They rarely discard either their porn or collections for any reason.

One factor that works against the pedophile is that eventually the children will grow up and recall the events that occurred. Often pedophiles are not brought to justice until such time occurs and victims are angered by being victimized and want to protect other children from the same consequences.

Laws such as Megan's Law - a federal law passed in 1996 that authorizes local law enforcement agencies to notify the public about convicted sex offenders living, working or visiting their communities, have helped expose the pedophile and allows parents to better protect their children.

Reporting Sexual Abuse:

Frequently Asked Questions About Sexual Abuse
Question: What do I do, or whom do I tell, if I am sexually assaulted or my child is sexually abused?
Answer:
Ultimately, the choice of reporting the sexual assault is a choice that a victim or a victim's parent must make. Perhaps the best course of action is to call a rape crisis center to explore your options and what the implications might be for you.

Recovering From Sexual Assault: Frequently Asked Questions About Sexual Abuse

Question:
If I am sexually assaulted I do not think that I could ever recover.
Answer:
Although the pain of sexual assault is profound, victims do heal. The healing process will be smoother if you seek assistance from someone, a therapist or a victim advocate, who has experience talking to sexual assault victims. Tell someone you trust what has happened; do not struggle with it alone.

Teaching Children Skills to Prevent Abduction
By Going Beyond "Don't Talk to Strangers"

"Rather than teaching children to fear strangers, which is at best, woefully inadequate, we need to use positive messages," says Dr. Broughton. "Children need to learn skills and confidence, not fear and avoidance." says Daniel Broughton, M.D., a pediatrician at Mayo Clinic .

Children should know their name, address and phone number (with area code) so, if lost, they can be reunited with their family.

Older children should know parents' work numbers.

Away from home, older children should always be with a friend, always tell an adult where they will be, and say "no" if they feel threatened or uncomfortable.
Children need to know that appropriate strangers -- store clerks or police officers -- can offer assistance if they are lost or need help.

Parents need to listen, and respect their children's feelings. Children can sense unease in inappropriate relationships. They'll likely share their concerns if parents routinely take all of their concerns in life seriously rather than downplaying or shaming them.

Children need to know that they do not need to kiss, hug, touch or sit on the lap of anyone, relative or not, if they do not wish to. This respect for their wishes translates into self-respect and the ability for children to say no to unwanted contacts without generating fear.

Parents need to supervise children who use the Internet. Although still relatively uncommon, the practice of pedophiles and child molesters approaching children on the Internet is occurring more frequently.

Parents need to keep reinforcing safety messages through middle school and high school. According to the U.S. Department of Justice, most victims of non family abductions were 12 years or older (58 percent). Most were girls (65 percent).

Parents should realize the limitations of participating in programs where children are fingerprinted or otherwise identified. These programs can frighten children and raise fears in adults without giving perspective on the real nature or risk of abduction.

Parents should keep on hand a high-quality recent photo of each child, such as a school photo. Law enforcement officials consider photos the best tool in finding missing children.

Parents should promptly report a missing child. The Amber Plan, the national program to immediately flood a region with news of an abduction, is credited with helping to recover more than 130 children since it started two years ago.

What Is Stalking?
Stalking Can Escalate into Violence

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Stalking refers to repeated harassing or threatening behavior by an individual, such as following a person, appearing at a person's home or place of business, making harassing phone calls, leaving written messages or objects, or vandalizing a person's property, according to the U.S. Department of Justice Office for Victims of Crime (OVC).

Any unwanted contact between two people that directly or indirectly communicates a threat or places the victim in fear can be considered stalking, but the actual legal definition of stalking varies from state to state according to each state's laws.

According to the OVC's brochure "Stalking Victimization," anyone can be a stalker, just as anyone can be a stalking victim. The brochure points out:
Stalking is a crime that can touch anyone, regardless of gender, race, sexual orientation, socioeconomic status, geographic location, or personal associations. Most stalkers are young to middle-aged men with above-average intelligence.

Unfortunately, there is no single psychological or behavioral profile for stalkers. Every stalker is different. This makes it virtually impossible to devise a single effective strategy that can be applied to every situation. It is vital that stalking victims immediately seek the advice of local victim specialists who can work with them to devise a safety plan for their unique situation and circumstances.

Some stalkers develop an obsession for another person with whom they have no personal relationship. When the victim does not respond as the stalker hopes, the stalker may attempt to force the victim to comply by use of threats and intimidation. When threats and intimidation fail, some stalkers turn to violence.

Stalking Can Become Violent

The most prevalent type of stalking case involves some previous personal or romantic relationship between the stalker and the victim. This includes domestic violence cases and relationships in which there is no history of violence. In these cases, stalkers try to control every aspect of their victims' lives.
The victim becomes the stalker's source of self-esteem, and the loss of the relationship becomes the stalker's greatest fear. This dynamic makes a stalker dangerous. Stalking cases that emerge from domestic violence situations, however, are the most lethal type of stalking.

The stalker may attempt to renew the relationship by sending flowers, gifts, and love letters. When the victim spurns these unwelcome advances, the stalker often turns to intimidation. Attempts at intimidation typically begin in the form of an unjustified and inappropriate intrusion into the victim's life.
The intrusions become more frequent over time. This harassing behavior often escalates to direct or indirect threats. Unfortunately, cases that reach this level of seriousness often end in violence.


The Myths About Serial Killers
Misconceptions Can Hinder Investigations

Dennis Rader

Much of the information that the public knows about serial killers has come from Hollywood movies and television programs, which have been exaggerated and dramatized for entertainment purposes, resulting in a significant amount of misinformation.

But it's not only the public that fallen prey to inaccurate information concerning serial killers. The media and even law enforcement professionals, who have limited experience with serial murder, often believe the myths generated by the fictional portrayals in movies.

According to the FBI, this can hinder investigations when there is a serial killer loose in the community. The FBI's Behavioral Analysis Unit has published a report, "Serial Murder - Multi-Disciplinary Perspectives for Investigators," which attempts to dispel some of the myths about serial killers.

According to the report, these are some of the common myths about serial killers:
Myth: Serial killers Are All Dysfunctional Loners

Most serial killers can hide in plain sight because they look just like everyone else with jobs, nice homes and families. The FBI report gives these examples:
The BTK Killer, Dennis Rader, killed 10 people in Wichita, Kansas over a 30-year period. He was married with two children, a Boy Scout leader, employed as a local government official and was the president of his church congregation.
The Green River Killer, Gary Ridgway confessed to killing 48 women over a 20-year period in the Seattle, Washington area. He was married, held the same job for 32 years, attended church regularly and read his Bible at home and at work.

Robert Yates killed 17 prostitutes in the 1990s in the Spokane, Washington area. He was married, had five children, lived in a middle-class neighborhood and was a decorated U.S. Army National Guard helicopter pilot.

Myth: Serial Killers Are All White Males
The racial make-up of known serial killers generally matches the racial diversification of the overall U.S. population, according to the report.

Charles Ng, a native of Hong Kong, China, possibly tortured and killed as many as 25 people with his partner, Robert Lake.
Derrick Todd Lee, a black man from Louisiana, killed at least six women in Baton Rouge.
Coral Eugene Watts, a black man from Michigan, known as the Sunday Morning Slasher, killed 17 people in Michigan and Texas.
Rafael Resendez-Ramirez, a Mexican national, killed nine people in Kentucky, Texas, and Illinois.
Rory Conde, a Colombian native, murdered six prostitutes in the Miami area.
Myth: Serial killers Are Only Motivated By Sex
Although some serial killers are motivated by sex, many have other motivations for their murders. Some of these include anger, thrill-seeking, financial gain and attention seeking.
D.C. Area Sniper, John Allen Muhammad and Lee Boyd Malvo killed 10 people to cover up the fact that Muhammad's eventual target was his wife.
Dr. Michael Swango was convicted of four murders in the U.S., but may have poisoned as many as 50 people in the United States and in Africa. The motivation for his murders was never determined.
Paul Reid killed at least seven people during robberies of fast-food restaurants in Tennessee. His motive for the robberies was financial gain. He killed the employees to eliminate witnesses.

Myth: All serial Murderers Travel and Operate Interstate
Actually, most serial killers operate within a "comfort zone" and definite geographic area. Very few serial killers travel between states to kill. Of those who do travel interstate to murder, most fall into these categories:
Itinerant individuals who move from place to place.
Homeless individuals who are transients.
Individuals whose employment lends itself to interstate or transnational travel, such as truck drivers or those in military service.
Because of their traveling lifestyle, these serial killers have many comfort zones.

Myth: Serial Killers Cannot Stop Killing
Sometimes circumstances will change in a serial killer's life causing them to stop killing before they are caught. The FBI report said the circumstances can include increased participation in family activities, sexual substitution, and other diversions.
Dennis Rader, the BTK killer, murdered 10 people from 1974 to 1991 and then did not kill again until he was caught in 2005. He told investigators that he engaged in auto-erotic activities to substitute for killing.
Jeffrey Gorton killed his first victim in 1986 and the second in 1991. He did not kill again until 2002 when he was caught. According to the FBI, Gorton engaged in cross-dressing and masturbation, as well as consensual sex with his wife between the murders.

Myth: All Serial Killers Are Insane or Evil Geniuses
In spite of fictionalized serial killers in the movies who outsmart law enforcement and avoid capture and conviction, the truth is that most serial killers test from borderline to above average intelligence.
Another myth is that serial killer have a debilitating mental condition and as a group they do suffer from a variety of personality disorders, but very few are found legally insane when they go to trial.
The serial killer as an "evil genius" is mostly a Hollywood invention, the report said.

Myth: Serial Killers Want to Get Caught
The law enforcement, academic and mental health experts who developed the FBI serial killer report said that as serial killers gain experience with killing, they gain confidence with each offense. They develop a feeling that they will never be identified and never be caught.
But killing someone and disposing of their body is not an easy task. As they gain confidence in the process, they can begin to take shortcuts or make mistakes. These mistakes can lead to them being identified by law enforcement.
It's not that they want to get caught, the study said, it's that they feel that they cannot get caught.
Source: Federal Bureau of Investigation Behavioral Analysis Unit. "Serial Murder — Multi-Disciplinary Perspectives for Investigators. July 2008.

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First off, everyone needs to realize that our judicial system is outdated. All of this “right to a fair trial” BS was created during the Salem Witch Trials era to protect people from bogus accusations. Our constitution is way outdated and needs to be re-written. If someone committed a crime then he/she is guilty. This man EXECUTED one cop and would very easily do it again. Anyone who does not agree with what happened should be taken out to the middle of the ocean to walk the plank. Read the article again. He executed a cop by shooting him in the back of the head. Eye for an eye. This last part is for Free Speech who said, “uniforms don’t make a difference.” Try putting on a uniform that can get you killed just for wearing it, and then come back and say that line again.

Being shot 68 times is obscene, these cops are taking justice into their own hands, I can’t believe many of you guys are defending the actions of these law enforcement officers, as a law student I can come up with dozens of civil rights violations committed by these officers, but in the end these cops won’t be convicted of any violation because it’s ignorant people like you guys who make up the jury in our criminal justice system!!!

Where do I start with this one? First of all while I certainly would not be labeled a liberal, I can find no “justice” in this whole cluster f–k! Swat teams that can’t hit their target, sheriff’s with stupid remarks and no belief or faith in the justice system they too should be abiding by. Police with no training on apprehending “suspected” killers. Remember the guy had not been tried or convicted in a court of law yet???

Yes I have been a victim of crime. Yes I had a very close relative murdered in cold blood. Yes I believe in the death penalty. But I also know that we nor the POLICE are judge and jury!!! You people who are trying to make the police out as above the law are contributing to their already narcissistic ego’s that allow them to talk to the average citizen as if everyone is guilty of something! Let a cop pull you over sometime and see how they get their sick little kicks out of dominance and sadistic behavior. Just like the man said, a uniform is a uniform. They get paid just like the kid from McDonald's…..it’s a freaking job, not a calling from God to do volunteer missionary work for their community!!!! They get paid… they get benefits….they signed up for it knowing the risks! Get them off the pedestal and reign them in! 110 bullets!

I don’t care what this guy did! This is taking justice in your own hands. We have judges, jury and court rooms for that. Their jobs are to apprehend them safely to bring them to court not to take the law into your own hands. Was shot at 110 times and hit 68 times. I can’t believe that anyone would say this is okay. This was murder! As they followed the suspect into the woods there was a “burst of gunfire” and Deputy Williams and his dog were killed and Speirs was wounded in the leg. Its called wait for back up. Not run into the woods by yourself… r u freaking kidding me. Back-up –your not working in the police department by yourself its suppose to be —team work.

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FAMILY RESOURCE CENTER OF LINCOLN COUNTYSA

PO BOX 1130
Ph: 509-725-4358  DAVENPORT  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
DVSA SERVICES OF THE SAN JUAN ISLANDSSA

PO BOX 1516
Ph: 360-376-5979  EASTSOUND  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
CENTRAL WA COMPMENTAL HEALTHSA

220 WEST 4TH STREET
Ph: 509-925-9861  ELLENSBURG
98926  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
CENTRAL WA COMPREHENSIVE MHASPENSA

220 WEST 4TH AVENUE
Ph: 509-925-9384  ELLENSBURG
98926  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
PROVIDENCE EVERETT SEXUAL ASSAULT CENTER

PO BOX 1067
Ph: 425-258-7969  EVERETT  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
FORKS ABUSE PROGRAMSA

PO BOX 1775
Ph: 360-374-6411  FORKS  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
EMERGENCY SUPPORT SHELTERSA

PO BOX 877
Ph: 360-425-1176  KELSO  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
SEXUAL ASSAULT RESPONSE CENTER

830 N COLUMBIA CENTER BLVD SUIT
Ph: 509-374-5391  KENNEWICK
99336  Assault, Child Physical Abuse, DUI/DWI Crashes, Elder Abuse, Non-Violent Crimes, Robbery, Survivors Of Homicide   Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Financial Assistance, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Follow-up Contact, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts , Therapy 
CRISIS SUPPORT NETWORKSA

2 APPELO LANE
Ph: 206-484-7191  NASELLE
98638  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Follow-up Contact, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts , Therapy 
FAMILY CRISIS NETWORKSA

PO BOX 944
Ph: 509-447-2274  NEWPORT  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
HEALTHY FAMILIES OF CLALLAM COUNTYSA

111 E THIRD STREETSUITE 1D
Ph: 206-452-3811  PORT ANGELES
98362  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
KITSAP SEXUAL ASSAULT CENTERSA

PO BOX 1936
Ph: 206-479-1788  PORT ORCHARD  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
DVSA PROGRAM OF JEFFERSON COUNTYSA

PO BOX 743
Ph: 360-385-5291  PORT TOWNSEND  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
ALTERNATIVES TO VIOLENCE OF THE PALOUSESA

POST OFFICE BOX 37
Ph: 509-332-0552  PULLMAN  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
ALTERNATIVES TO VIOLENCEPALOUSESA

PO BOX 37
Ph: 509-332-0552  PULLMAN  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
KING CNTY SEXUAL ASSAULT RESOURCE CTRSA

PO BOX 300
Ph: 206-226-5062
Ph: 800-825-7273  RENTON  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
KING COUNTY SEXUAL ASSAULT RESOURCE CENTER

PO BOX 300
Ph: 425-226-5062  RENTON  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
SEXUAL ASSAULT RESPONSE CENTER

640 JADWIN SUITE D
Ph: 509-946-2377  RICHLAND
99352  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Follow-up Contact, Personal Advocacy 
ADAMS COUNTY RESOURCE CENTERSA

PO BOX 424
Ph: 509-659-4225  RITZVILLE  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
ADWASSA

2627 EASTLAKE AVENUE EAST
Ph: 206-726-0093  SEATTLE
98102  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Follow-up Contact, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts , Therapy 
ABUSED DEAF WOMEN'S ADVOCACY SERVICESSA

4738 11TH AVENUE NE
Ph: 206-726-0093  SEATTLE
98105  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
CENTER FOR ADVOCACY AND PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

PO BOX E
Ph: 360-426-5430  SHELTON  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
CENTER FOR ADVOCACY AND PERSONAL DEVELOPMENTSA

221 W RAILROAD STREETSUITE E
Ph: 360-426-5430  SHELTON
98584  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
MASON COUNTY COUNCIL ON ABUSESA

428 W BIRCH #15
Ph: 360-426-5430  SHELTON
98584  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Follow-up Contact, Group Therapy 
CRISIS SUPPORT NETWORKSA

PO BOX 48
Ph: 360-875-6702  SOUTH BEND  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
SAFET RESPONSE CENTER OF LUTHERAN COMMUNITY SVCS

210 WEST SPRAGUE
Ph: 509-747-8224  SPOKANE
99201  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
Spokane FBI Field Office

316 W Boone, Ste 250
Ph: 509-747-5195
Fax: 509-747-0106  Spokane
99201  Adult Sexual Assault, Arson, Assault, Child Abduction, Child Physical Abuse, Child Sexual Abuse, Domestic Violence, Elder Abuse, Fraud, Human Trafficking, Identity Theft, Robbery, Stalking, Survivors Of Homicide , Terrorism, Victims With Disabilities, White Collar Crime  Law Enforcement  Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Crisis Prevention, Direct Clinical Services 
LOWER VALLEY CRISIS & SUPPORT SVCSSA

PO BOX 93
Ph: 509-837-6689  SUNNYSIDE  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
Sunnyside Community Hospital

716 Tacoma Ave
Ph: 509-837-1707
Ph: 509-837-1509
Fax: 509-837-1350  Sunnyside
98944  Adult Sexual Assault, Aggravated Battery, Assault, Child Physical Abuse, Domestic Violence  Hospital  Forensic Examinations 
SEXUAL ASSAULT CENTER OF PIERCE COUNTYSA

1901 S UNION SUITE A114
Ph: 253-000-0000  TACOMA
98405  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Follow-up Contact, Group Therapy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts , Therapy 
SEXUAL ASSAULT CENTER OF PIERCE COUNTY

633 NORTH MILDRED SUITE J
Ph: 253-597-6424  TACOMA
98406  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
SEXUAL ASSAULT CENTER OF PIERCE COUNTYSA

633 N MILDREDSUITE J
Ph: 253-000-0000  TACOMA
98406  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
YWCA OF WALLA WALLASA

213 S 1ST
Ph: 509-525-2570  WALLA WALLA
99362  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
YWCA OF WALLA WALLASA

213 S 1ST
Ph: 509-525-2570  WALLA WALLA
99362  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
YWCA OF WALLA WALLASA

213 S 1ST
Ph: 509-525-2570  WALLA WALLA
99362  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
DSV CRISIS CENTER OF CHELANDOUGLASSA

PO BOX 2704
Ph: 509-663-1952  WENATCHEE  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
DSV Crisis Center


Ph: 509-663-7446
Ph: 509-888-4357
Fax: 509-664-0641  Wenatchee
98801  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Aggravated Battery, Arson, Assault, Child Abduction, Child Physical Abuse, Child Sexual Abuse, Domestic Violence, DUI/DWI Crashes, Economic/Property Crime, Elder Abuse, Fraud, Gang Violence, Hate Crime, Human Trafficking, Identity Theft, Missing Persons, Non-Violent Crimes, Robbery, Stalking, Survivors Of Homicide , Terrorism, Victims With Disabilities, White Collar Crime  Children's Advocacy Centers, Rape Crisis, Shelter, Victim Services Agency  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Cell Phones (911), Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Crisis Prevention, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Follow-up Contact, Forensic Examinations, Group Therapy, Identity Theft Counseling , Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Safety Plans (DV), Shelter/Safe House, Support Group(s), Telephone Contacts , Therapy, Transportation 
KLICKITATSKAMANIA DEVELOPMENT COUNCILSA

PO BOX 1580
Ph: 509-493-2662  WHITE SALMON  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  
KLIKITITSKAMANIA DEVELOPMENT COUNCILSA

PO BOX 1486
Ph: 509-493-2662  WHITE SALMON  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Follow-up Contact, Group Therapy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts , Therapy 
YAKIMA SEXUAL ASSAULT PROGRAM

PO BOX 959
Ph: 509-575-4084  YAKIMA  Adult Sexual Assault, Adults Molested As Children, Child Sexual Abuse  Rape Crisis  Assistance in Filing Compensation Claims, Criminal Justice Support Advocacy, Crisis Counseling, Crisis Hotline Counseling, Emergency Legal Advocacy, Information And Referral , Personal Advocacy, Telephone Contacts  

Types of Sexual Assault

Types of Sexual Assault
By: Thomas “Birdy” McKee
10-20-2010



Unfortunately, sexual assault can come in many forms. In order to better understand the wide range of personal violence's that can occur, we have included definitions of different types of rape and sexual assault, as well as other kinds of violence that often arise hand-in-hand with sexual assault. Click on the title below to read more about each type of sexual assault.

Was I Raped?

How can you figure out if what happened was rape? There are a few questions to consider.

Sexual Assault

Be aware: Some states use this term interchangeably with rape. For a precise legal definition, check the laws in your state.

Rape

Rape victims may be forced through threats or physical means. In about 8 out of 10 rapes, no weapon is used other than physical force. Anyone may be a victim of rape: women, men or children, straight or gay.

Acquaintance Rape

Acquaintance assault involves coercive sexual activities that occur against a person's will by means of force, violence, duress, or fear of bodily injury. These sexual activities are imposed upon them by someone they know.

Child Sexual Abuse

Sexual assault of children often includes incest as a subset of this form of sexual assault. While there is a substantial amount of overlap in the two types of assault, for the purposes of this website we have separated them in recognition of the different needs that victims of each type of assault may have.

Child Abuse

Child abuse takes place when a child is harmed by someone else physically, psychologically, or by acts of neglect.

Dating and Domestic Violence

Dating and domestic violence occurs in all socioeconomic, educational, racial, and age groups. The issues of power and control are at the heart of family violence.

Drug Facilitated Sexual Assault

Drug facilitated sexual assault is the type of sexual assault in which drugs or alcohol are used to compromise an individual's ability to consent to sexual activity.

Hate Crimes

A hate crime is the victimization of an individual based on that individual's race, religion, national origin, ethnic identification, gender, or sexual orientation.

Incest

Incest is the type of sexual contact that occurs between persons who are so closely related that their marriage is illegal (e.g., parents and children, uncles/aunts and nieces/nephews, etc.).

Male Sexual Assault

Male victims of sexual assault are an often forgotten population--unseen, neglected, and undeserved. The following information has been put together so that this population of victims can be better understood and supported.

Partner Rape

Partner rape includes sexual acts committed without a person's consent and/or against a person's will when the perpetrator is the individual's current partner (married or not), previous partner, or cohabitator.

Sexual Exploitation by Helping Professionals

Sexual exploitation by helping professionals involves sexual contact of any kind between a helping professional — doctor, therapist, teacher, priest, professor, police officer, lawyer, etc. — and a client/patient.

Sexual Harassment

Sexual harassment includes unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature that affects an individual's work or school performance.

Stalking

The impact of stalking can be profound and life altering. Individuals who are stalked often change many of their behavior patterns and have strong emotional responses to the stalking.

Stranger Rape

Three major categories include Blitz Sexual Assault, Contact Sexual Assault, and Home Invasion Sexual Assault.

Was I Raped?

Was I Raped?
By: Thomas “Birdy” McKee
10-20-2010


The exact definition of “rape,” “sexual assault,” “sexual abuse” and similar terms differs by state. The wording can get confusing, since states often use different words to mean the same thing or use the same words to describe different things. So, for a precise legal definition, you need to check the law in your state. But here are some general guidelines based on the definitions used by the U.S. Justice Department. Please note that these definitions are a bit graphic, which is inevitable when describing crimes this violent.

Rape is forced sexual intercourse, including vaginal, anal, or oral penetration. Penetration may be by a body part or an object.

* Rape victims may be forced through threats or physical means. In about 8 out of 10 rapes, no weapon is used other than physical force. Anyone may be a victim of rape: women, men or children, straight or gay.

Sexual assault is unwanted sexual contact that stops short of rape or attempted rape. This includes sexual touching and fondling. (But, be aware: Some states use this term interchangeably with rape.)
So, how can you figure if what happened was rape? There are a few questions to consider.

There are three main considerations in judging whether or not a sexual act is consensual (which means that both people are old enough to consent, have the capacity to consent, and agreed to the sexual contact) or is a crime.

1. Are the participants old enough to consent? Each state sets an “age of consent,” which is the minimum age someone must be to have sex. People below this age are considered children and cannot legally agree to have sex. In other words, even if the child or teenager says yes, the law says no.
* In most states, the age of consent is 16 or 18. In some states, the age of consent varies according to the age difference between the participants. Generally, “I thought she was 18” is not considered a legal excuse — it’s up to you to make sure your partner is old enough to legally take part.
* Because laws are different in every state, it is important to find out the law in your state. You can call your local crisis center or the National Sexual Assault Hot line at 1.800.656.HOPE to find out more about the laws in your state.
2. Do both people have the capacity to consent? States also define who has the mental and legal capacity to consent. Those with diminished capacity — for example, some people with disabilities, some elderly people and people who have been drugged or are unconscious — may not have the legal ability to agree to have sex.
* These categories and definitions vary widely by state, so it is important to check the law in your state. You can call your local crisis center or the National Sexual Assault Hot line at 1.800.656.HOPE to find out more about the laws in your state.
3. Did both participants agree to take part? Did someone use physical force to make you have sexual contact with him/her? Has someone threatened you to make you have intercourse with them? If so, it is rape.
* It doesn’t matter if you think your partner means yes, or if you’ve already started having sex — “No” also means “Stop.” If you proceed despite your partner’s expressed instruction to stop, you have not only violated basic codes of morality and decency, you may have also committed a crime under the laws of your state (check your state’s laws for specifics).

Common Questions

I didn’t resist physically – does that mean it isn’t rape?

People respond to an assault in different ways. Just because you didn’t resist physically doesn’t mean it wasn’t rape — in fact, many victims make the good judgment that physical resistance would cause the attacker to become more violent. Lack of consent can be express (saying “no”) or it can be implied from the circumstances (for example, if you were under the statutory age of consent, or if you had a mental defect, or if you were afraid to object because the perpetrator threatened you with serious physical injury).

I used to date the person who assaulted me – does that mean it isn’t rape?

Rape can occur when the offender and the victim have a preexisting relationship (sometimes called “date rape” or “acquaintance rape”), or even when the offender is the victim’s spouse. It does not matter whether the other person is an ex-boyfriend or a complete stranger, and it doesn’t matter if you’ve had sex in the past. If it is non-consensual this time, it is rape. (But be aware that a few states still have limitations on when spousal rape is a crime.)

I don’t remember the assault – does that mean it isn’t rape?

Just because you don’t remember being assaulted doesn’t necessarily mean it didn’t happen and that it wasn’t rape. Memory loss can result from the ingestion of GHB and other “rape drugs” and from excessive alcohol consumption. That said, without clear memories or physical evidence, it may not be possible to pursue prosecution (talk to your local crisis center or local police for guidance).

I was asleep or unconscious when it happened – does that mean it isn’t rape?

Rape can happen when the victim was unconscious or asleep. If you were asleep or unconscious, then you didn’t give consent. And if you didn’t give consent, then it is rape.

I was drunk or he was drunk – does that mean it isn’t rape?

Alcohol and drugs are not an excuse – or an alibi. The key question is still: did you consent or not? Regardless of whether you were drunk or sober, if the sex is non-consensual, it is rape. However, because each state has different definitions of “non-consensual”, please contact your local center or local police if you have questions about this. (If you were so drunk or drugged that you passed out and were unable to consent, it was rape. Both people must be conscious and willing participants.)

I thought “no,” but didn’t say it. Is it still rape?

It depends on the circumstances. If you didn’t say no because you were legitimately scared for your life or safety, then it may be rape. Sometimes it isn’t safe to resist, physically or verbally — for example, when someone has a knife or gun to your head, or threatens you or your family if you say anything.

If you’ve been raped or sexually assaulted, or even if you aren’t sure, contact the National Sexual Assault Online Hot line or the National Sexual Assault Hot line (1-800-656-HOPE) for free, confidential help, day or night.

How Can I Protect My Child From Sexual Assault?

How Can I Protect My Child From Sexual Assault?
By: Thomas "Birdy" McKee 10-20-2010


Parents are surrounded by messages about child sexual abuse. Talk shows and TV news warn parents about dangers at school, in the home and on the Internet. Despite all the media coverage, parents don’t get much advice about how to talk to their children about sexual abuse and how to prevent it.

Talk to your children about sexuality and sexual abuse in age-appropriate terms.

* Talking openly and directly about sexuality teaches children that it is okay to talk to you when they have questions.
* Teach children the names of their body parts so that they have the language to ask questions and express concerns about those body parts.
* Teach children that some parts of their body are private.
o Let children know that other people should not be touching or looking at their private parts unless they need to touch them to provide care. If someone does need to touch them in those private areas, a parent of trusted caregiver should be there, too.
o Tell children that if someone tries to touch those private areas or wants to look at them, OR if someone tries to show the child their own private parts, they should tell a trusted adult as soon as possible.
* All children should be told that it’s okay to say “no” to touches that make them uncomfortable or if someone is touching them in ways that make them uncomfortable and that they should tell a trusted adult as soon as possible.
o This can lead to some slightly embarrassing situations, such as a child who then says they don’t want give a relative a hug or kiss! Work with your child to find ways to greet people that don’t involve uncomfortable kinds of touch.
o Talking openly about sexuality and sexual abuse also teaches children that these things don’t need to be “secret.” Abusers will sometimes tell a child that the abuse is a secret. Let your children know that if someone is touching them or talking to them in ways that make them uncomfortable that it shouldn’t stay a secret.
o Make sure to tell your child that that they will not get into trouble if they tell you this kind of secret.
* Don’t try to put all this information into one big “talk” about sex.
o Talking about sexuality and sexual abuse should be routine conversations.

Be involved in your child’s life.

* Be interested in your child’s activities.
o Ask your child about the people they go to school with or play with.
o If your child is involved in sports, go to games and practices. Get to know the other parents and coaches.
o If your child is involved in after school activities or daycare, ask them what they did during the day.
* Talk about the media.
o If your child watches a lot of television or plays video games, watch or play with them.
+ Many TV shows (for example, CSI or Law and Order) show sexual violence of different kinds.
+ Some video games (for example, Grand Theft Auto) allow the user to engage in sexual violence.
o Use examples from TV or games that you have watched or played together to start up conversations about sexuality and sexual abuse.
* Know the other adults that your child might talk to.
o Children sometimes feel that they cannot talk to their parents.
o Know the other trusted adults in your child’s life.

Be available.

* Make time to spend with your child.
* Let your child know that they can come to you if they have questions or if someone is talking to them in a way that makes them feel uncomfortable.
o Be sure to follow up on this! If your child comes to you with concerns or questions, make time to talk to them.

When you empower your child to say “no” to unwanted touch and teach them that they can come to you with questions and concerns, you take critical steps to preventing child sexual abuse.