Hmong: Stereotypes ntawm kev sib deev ua npua yuav ua tau yuam kev.

Ob peb xyoos dhau los, yav tas los Penn xeev pab football qhia Jerry Sandusky yog mus hais plaub rau liam txhob kaum tub hluas tshaj ib lub sij hawm ntawm 15 xyoo. Cov zaj lus tim khawv tau duab. Ib tug raug tsim txom hais tias nws tau yuam kom qhov ncauj nrog txiv neej pw thiab ces hem kom nws nyob twj ywm ntsiag to. Lwm tau ib tug, nyob rau hauv cov kua muag, piav ib tug ntshai kev sib deev teeb meem thaum nws yog ib 13.

 Tsis tau lwm yav tas los kev ntaus kis las ua tim khawv tias nyob rau hauv 2001, nws hnov ​​lub suab ntawm "daim tawv nqaij rau ntawm daim tawv nqaij" thiab pom Sandusky liab qab nrog ib tug me nyuam tub nyob rau hauv tus da dej. Nws ntsia mus rau nws raws li yog hais tias tus neeg raug foob tau raping cov me nyuam tub. Cov neeg raug nrhiav kev pab muaj feem ntau tso. Ob peb ntseeg tias Sandusky yog muaj peev xwm ntawm xws reprehensible kev kho mob. Nws yog ze li ntawm tsis yooj yim sua rau prospectively xyuas seb leej twg ib tug kev sib deev predator tej zaum yuav. Ib tug neeg uas zoo li "creepy" yog tsis muaj ntau tus neeg ua txhaum dua ib tug respectable neeg yog; raws li zoo, yog vim hais tias ib tug neeg mas, respectable tsis tshem tawm nws (los yog nws) raws li ib tug me nyuam molester. Yog twv ua ntej raws li sijhawm, tsos, los yog coj tus cwj pwm tseem nyob sab nraum lub ncav cuag ntawm cov kws txawj.

Txawm li cas los, qhov no yog dab tsi peb paub txog offenders uas thab cov me nyuam:

Sib tham nrog, thiab questionnaires muab rau, pedophiles yog cov ob peb npaj siab mus kawm tau dab tsi tus me nyuam molesters hais txog lawv cov kev ntshaw thiab tus cwj pwm. Txawm tias tus txhaum uas skulk nyob ib ncig ntawm chaw ua si los yog muaj teeb meem nkaum li lawv siab nyiam yog cuab kev, lawv yog tsis yog hais tias tus nais khu. Society yuav tsum muaj kev txhawj xeeb nrog cov neeg uas skillfully zais lawv tej kev xav ua tej li hais tias lawv yuav xyaum undetected rau xyoo thiab tej zaum xyoo lawm, racking li pua pua ntawm cov neeg raug.

Pedophiles yog feem ntau muab tso rau hauv ib qho ntawm plaub yam.

1). Mysoped. Cov offenders xav nyob rau hauv ntshai thiab kev sib deev ua phem rau cov me nyuam vim hais tias lawv xav kom lub cev ua mob rau lawv.
2). Lub regressed tus me nyuam ua txhaum. Qhov no ib tug neeg feem ntau muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog cov neeg laus, tab sis offends tiv thaiv ib tug me nyuam vim hais tias ntawm ib tug stressful kev tshwm sim nyob rau hauv tus neeg ua txhaum lub neej uas ua rau ib tug neeg mus nrhiav kev pab nws yuav tswj.
3). Fixated tus me nyuam ua txhaum. Yog daig nyob rau ntawm ib thaum ntxov rau theem ntawm txoj kev loj hlob psychosexual. Nws muaj me ntsis los tsis muaj kev ua si nrog cov neeg nws tus kheej muaj hnub nyoog thiab yog feem ntau tsis xis nyob ib ncig ntawm cov neeg laus. Nws hlub cov menyuam yaus thiab tsis xav ua phem rau lawv, yog li nws rationalizes uas tsim txom yog ua tau es paub.
4). Naïve pedophile, yog tus neeg uas, yeej tseem zoo, muaj tsis muaj kev txiav txim zoo ntawm txoj cai thiab tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Tus neeg ua txhaum yog feem ntau lub hlwb ruamqauj lossis tsis ruaj tsis khov, thiab tsis to taub cov kev cai ntawm tej zej zog.

Thaum soj ntsuam xam phaj 52 kev ua phem ua qias rau yus cov me nyuam thiab 50 pedophilic offenders, lawv pom tias qhov nruab nrab muaj hnub nyoog ntawm cov me nyuam molesters yog 34 yrs. qub. Tshiab stats qhia tau tias 25% yog tshaj 40. Ib tug raug modus operandi yog kev tshoov cov niam txiv thiab muaj kev rau babysit tus neeg uas raug. Lawv yog attracted rau lub sijhawm nyob rau hauv uas muaj me nyuam yooj yim attainable, thiab tej zaum yuav txawm muab lawv tsa. Lawv maj mam ntxig rau hauv lawv tus kheej tus neeg uas raug lub neej. Thaum lawv ua tau zoo, feem ntau pib hu yog "lo" kov ub kov no los yog cuddling. Qhov no pub rau tus neeg ua txhaum kom nyob ze rau ib tug me nyuam yog tsis muaj nws los yog nws suspecting hais tias txhua yam tawm ntawm qhov dog dig yog tshwm sim. Yog hais tias ntes tau, nws yog ib qho yooj yim mus hais tias nws yog ib tug to taub yuam kev.
Tu siab, muaj ntau yam pedophiles kuj siv quab yuam, ntshai tus me nyuam mus rau hauv kev ua raws cai nrog ntshai heev txawm tiv thaiv tus me nyuam los yog nws tsev neeg. Tej zaum lawv yuav siv tau bribes los xyuas kom meej silence los yog nce kev tso cai. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv yog, pedophiles yuav feem ntau dag qub coj los maj mam ntxias me nyuam mus rau lawv ntseeg hais tias muaj dab tsi phem tshwm sim rau lawv. Tej zaum lawv yuav tau sim txaj muag lawv mus rau hauv silence.

Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom to taub tias pedophiles feem ntau mus undetected vim hais tias lawv yog li ntawd, "zoo." Cov phooj ywg thiab cov neeg nyob ze ntawm Anthony Barron, 54, tau xav tsis thoob thaum thaum nws twb txim ntawm 89 txhaum tiv thaiv tub ntxhais hluas ntxhais. Barron yog ib tug volunteer Nyiaj Txiag rau lub Scouts thiab yog active nyob rau hauv ib tug niam txiv-xib fwb lub koom haum. Nws paub tias yuav ua li cas kom tau cov neeg tso siab rau nws. Txawm li cas los, tshaj ib lub sij hawm ntawm 9 xyoo, nws molested tsawg kawg yog 11 cov ntxhais. Ib tug raug "groomer," Barron befriended cov niam txiv ua ntej. Nws tuaj nyob raws li tsim nyog thiab saib xyuas, thiab nws yog, tom qab tag nrho, muaj ib tug txiv thiab nws yawg. Ib txhia niam txiv tso cai rau nws mus saib lawv cov me nyuam thaum lawv nyob deb, thiab nws siv ua si, cov khoom ua si, thiab ib tug charming yam rau koj yaum tau cov ntxhais mus muab kev koom tes. Nyob rau hauv nws lub tsev, nws thaij duab nws tus kheej ntshai lawv. Tom qab txhua tus kev sib deev kev sib ntsib, Barron siv khoom qab zib rau xiab nws cov neeg raug mus rau hauv seem uas ntsiag to. Nyob rau hauv ib cov ntaub ntawv, Barron tau pib ib tug kev sib raug zoo nrog tus niam ntawm ib tug prepubescent me nyuam nws kev kawm ua ntej nws tsiv mus nyob rau tus ntxhais.

To taub txog lub predatory nrog txiv neej pw ua txhaum tseem ceeb heev rau pej xeem muaj kev ruaj ntseg, tab sis nws yog Attendance tseem ceeb kom paub tias cov hom ntawm cov me nyuam uas pedophiles phiaj. Molesters yuav feem ntau xaiv cov neeg raug, uas yog txaj muag, lam tau lam ua thiab cov txom nyem, raws li tau zoo raws li cov neeg tswv kev kub ntxhov los sis raug rho tawm, vim hais tias lawv paub, uas, xws cov me nyuam desperately nrhiav ib tug phooj ywg. Tu siab, xws cov me nyuam yog neeg mloog lus thiab inhibited, thiab thiaj li yog tsis zoo li mus muab tus neeg ua txhaum ib tug nyuaj lub sij hawm yog hais tias nws forces lawv mus rau hauv ib tug kev sib deev teeb meem no. Lawv kuj yuav kom daim card, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog yog hais bribed los yog raug teeb meem. Thaum xws li kev sib deev scandals mam, cov neeg ib txwm xav kom paub yuav ua li cas cov kev tsim txom yuav tau ploj mus ntev ua luaj li tsis muaj leej twg paub txog. Qhov tseeb yog, txhom yuav ua tau heev polished nyob rau hauv kev dag ntxias. Feem ntau heev, lawv zoo li dog dig, pab tau, thiab txawm kev. Vim lawv tsis haum ib tug stereotype, nws yog yooj yim rau cov neeg nyob ib ncig ntawm lawv yuav tsum txhuam tawm cov liab tus chij.

Koj yuav tsum cia siab rau koj ntxais, thiab tiv thaiv koj tus me nyuam los ntawm kev txaus ntshai.

- Noog.
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