Hmong: Cov profile ntawm ib tug me nyuam molester:

Qhov no tsis yog ib tug ua tiav daim ntawv teev. Kuv twb pib muab tus yam ntxwv thiab liab chij tias kuv yuav tau xav seb hais tias kuv saib rau nyob rau hauv kev tiv thaiv tag nrho cov me nyuam, txhua hnub nyoog thiab yog txivneej los pojniam. Feem ntau ntawm cov no yuav hais txog cov txiv neej, los yog cov txiv neej yog txivneej los pojniam, tab sis thov paub hais tias cov poj niam kuj ua phem rau cov me nyuam. Thov nco ntsoov, dhau lawm, hais tias muaj ib co ntawm cov sijhawm tsis txhais hais tias tus neeg ntawd yog ib tug molester.

Nco ntsoov, koj yuav tsis tos ib tug neeg uas tsim tawm ntawm ib lub txim. Muaj tsis muaj kev sib los yog nyiaj txiag teeb meem. Ib tug neeg uas tsim yuav ua tau tus thawj tswj hwm ntawm lub tuam txhab, koj tus kwv tij, phooj ywg, leej txiv, yawg, txiv ntxawm, cov neeg nyob ze, cov xib fwb, neeg zov me nyuam, tus me nyuam tus neeg, ncaj, gay, sib yuav, ib, txiv neej los sis poj niam, tub ntxhais hluas mus rau cov neeg laus, nplua nuj los yog neeg pluag, yuav ua tau nyob rau hauv ib txoj hauj lwm ntawm lub hwj chim los yog ib txhia nameless tsis muaj tsev nyob tus neeg nyob rau hauv koj lub zej zog.

Abusers yuav:
• Tau ua phem rau cov me nyuam lawv tus kheej.
• Yuav sib deev attracted rau cov me nyuam (feem ntau yuav tsis los yuav tsis tiv tau tej kev ntshaw).
• Nrhiav txoj haujlwm uas cov me nyuam muaj (thawj coj ntawm cov me nyuam pab pawg, hab, thiab lwm yam, coaches, camp counselors thiab / los yog chaperones, chaw zov me nyuam, tsev kawm ntawv txaus qhia, muaj rau babysit rau cov phooj ywg & tsev neeg, thiab lwm yam).
• zoo li mus hlub cov me nyuam, cov me nyuam zoo li twv rau tus neeg.
• Nrhiav kev tawm cov poj niam nrog cov me nyuam (los yog cov phooj ywg nrog cov me nyuam).
• Siv ib tug ntau ntawm cov sij hawm nrog ib tug me nyuam (tsis tau lawv tus kheej).
• zoo li txhav, kev ncaj ncees, ib tug ncej ntawm lub zej zog (ib yam nkaus thiab feem ntau accusations ntawm kev tsim txom tsis tau ntseeg vim hais tias cov neeg seemed yuav zoo, ib yam nkaus thiab zoo heev rau ua xws li ib tug tshaj plaws.
• nraug vauv ib tug me nyuam ncav mus tsim ib tug tshwj xeeb daim ntawv cog lus (qhov no tej zaum yuav koom nrog muab tus me nyuam tej khoom plig, nyiaj txiag, los yog txawm haus dej haus cawv, los yog lwm yam 'txwv tsis pub' tej yam uas ua rau nws yuav tshwm sim nws yog ib tug tshwj xeeb cov phooj ywg thiab tsim cua rau daim card cia. Yuav kuj muaj xws li playfully kov ub kov no, tickling, thiab lwm yam, tab sis tsiv ntawm ib tug li tej kov).
• Ua ib tug authoritarian los yog txaj muag thiab unassertive.
• Nquag qhov chaw xws li video arcades los yog yeeb yam tsev.
• Yuav addicted rau tus me nyuam saib duab liab qab.
• Yuav tsum seeb nyob rau hauv neeg laus kev sib raug zoo (nws los yog nws tsis muaj feem zoo, yog insecure).
• Muaj cov tsos mob thiab tom qab-los ntawm ib tug survivor.
• sim kom tsis kam los yog thwj lawv tus cwj pwm.
• Ua yuam.
• tshoov tib leej niam nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav tau mus rau lub me nyuam. Lawv prey rau cov xav xav txais kev ntawm tus poj niam uas twb tsis muaj kev txhawb pab. Lawv yeej pw nrog leej niam.
• Roughhouse nrog cov me nyuam xws li tickling, slapping pob tw, thiab lwm yam cia li mus siv no playful guise thaum lawv muaj nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb kov cia los yog tej (private) qhov chaw ntawm lub Childs lub cev.
• Hu rau cov tub ntxhais hluas hluas nkauj ntxim hlub los yog kub los yog ua lwm yam kev sib deev Muab cov lus
Muaj ib co myths xwb lwm tus lub qhov teeb meem ntawm cov poj niam abusers. Ntawm no yog ib co ntawm lawv.

Myths xwb hais txog poj niam abusers:
• Cov maum ua tsis tau kev sib deev kev tsim txom.
• Cov maum tsuas ua phem rau yog tias coerced los yog accompainied los ntawm ib tug txiv neej.
• Yog hais tias cov maum kev sib deev kev tsim txom, nws yog maj, hlub, los yog misguided motherly hlub.
• Cov maum tsuas ua phem rau cov tub hluas.
• Yog hais tias koj yog poj niam thiab koj tau ua phem rau los ntawm ib tug poj niam, ces koj yuav tau lesbian, yog tias txiv neej, gay los yog misogynist.
• Yog hais tias koj tau kev sib deev ua phem rau raws li ib tug me nyuam, koj yuav ua phem rau ib tug neeg laus.
• Cov neeg uas hais tias lawv tau ua phem rau los ntawm ib tug poj niam yog fantasizing los yog dag. Yog hais tias koj yog txiv neej, koj muaj kev sib deev u, thiab yog hais tias tus ntawd yog koj niam, koj muaj incestuous xav tau. Yog hais tias koj yog poj niam koj yog muddled thiab nws yog ib tug txiv neej uas yeej ua phem rau koj.
• Cov poj niam xwb kev sib deev ua phem rau cov me nyuam hluas.
• Yog hais tias ib tug 30-xyoo-laus poj niam twb mus ntxias ib tug 14-xyoo-laus tub nws yuav tsis tau kev sib deev kev tsim txom, tab sis yog tias ib tug 30-xyoo-laus tug txiv neej twb mus ntxias ib tug 14-xyoo-laus ntxhais, ces nws yuav undoubetedy yuav li ntawd. Yog hais tias ib tug leej niam muaj ib tug incestuous kev sib raug zoo nrog nws tus tub nyob rau hauv nws lig tus hluas / twenties ntxov, nws poj niam txiv neej ntawm ob tso cai rau cov neeg laus thiab tsis sib deev kev tsim txom.
• Nws yog zuj zus yuav tsum tau kev sib deev ua phem rau los ntawm ib tug poj niam tshaj los ntawm ib tug txiv neej.

Tus me nyuam molestation yog ib tug mob: Lub perp tej zaum yuav muaj raug tsim txom raws li ib tug me nyuam thiab yog ua yeeb yam nws / nws tus kheej kev tsim txom thaum txhob lwm tus me nyuam. Los yog nws / nws yuav muaj cai lwm tus me nyuam raug ua phem rau. Nws / tej zaum nws yuav tau qhia rau cov pronography yog raws li ib tug me nyuam los yog nyob rau hauv xyoo tom ntej. Txawm pib nws, tus neeg txuas ntxiv mus kom pub rau nws u yam, los koj xav kom koj hu lawv, thiab ces nws / nws tau txais lub peev xwm mus ua yeeb yam rau u.
Nws yog ntseeg hais tias tus me nyuam saib duab liab qab yuav tsum muaj pov thawj yuav tsum muaj cov teeb meem feem ntau vice uas txo nws hwj ntau ntawm peb cov me nyuam uas muaj feem yuav. Kuv tsis xav tias ib tug neeg muaj peev xwm tseem mus nrhiav nyob rau hauv cov duab, tau txais kev sib deev Library los ntawm lawv mus ib txhis thiab yuav tsum txaus siab. Lawv yuav mus xav tau ntau tshaj ... thiab ... nws yuav siv sij hawm ntau rau lawv cov tib sib deev kev xyiv fab. Yog li ntawd thaum lub sij hawm ntawm lub nce, ib tug me nyuam yog muaj thiab tus neeg no yog aroused, nws / nws yuav ua rau cov neeg ntshaw. Kuv ntseeg tias qhov no yog tshwj xeeb tshaj yog muaj tseeb thaum cov tib neeg uas txhawb tus me nyuam liab qab ntseeg tus txiv neej nrog ib tug me nyuam yog ib qhov zoo thiab muaj kev hlub.

Nws yog tu siab thiab rau peb poob siab xav tias ib tug ob peb mob, siab phem cov neeg muaj peev xwm tseem tau txais lawv txoj kev thiab kev rhuav tseg cov txhaum, kev ruaj ntseg, thiab feem ntau lub neej ntawm peb cov me nyuam.
Thov nyeem thiab qhia, nws yog vitally kom tiv thaiv tau peb yav tom ntej, lub neej yav tom ntej ntawm peb cov me nyuam.

Raws li ib txwm, muaj kev nyob xeeb!

Noog

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