Hmong: Cov Hmoob tias koj paub: yuav ua li cas hnov ​​ib tug me nyuam molester lub tricks:

Koj puas xav tias koj yuav tsum tau qhia rau yog tias ib tug kev sib deev predator twb siv dag ntxias "tu yus hom kev kawm" mus nce nkag tau mus rau koj tus me nyuam? Nyob rau hauv ntau ntau zaus, cov liab tus chij yuav xyaum tau nyob rau hauv peb ntswg. Tsis tau feem ntau, cov niam txiv uas kawm tau hais tias lawv tus me nyuam twb tau victimized yuav sib hlub ib yam tshuaj tiv thaiv ... "kuv twb tsis muaj lub tswv yim ... Nws yog zoo li ntawd ... Nws tsis zoo li ib tug molester."

Tsis muaj, lawv tsis zoo li cov boogeyman. Yog hais tias lawv tau ua, nws yuav yooj yim nyob deb ntawm lawv. Tus me nyuam molesters yog cunning kws txawj ntawm kev dag ntxias. Yog hais tias lawv tsis yog, lawv yuav tsis tau txais tam sim ntawd nrog lawv ris ua.

Thiab lawv feem ntau yog tsis paub. Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, 90% ntawm lub sij hawm, lawv muaj ib tug kev sib raug zoo nrog lawv cov neeg raug thiab cov tsev neeg.

Lawv siv txhob txwm tricks thiab ploys kom txais tau ib tus me nyuam txoj kev cia siab rau. Hais tias lawv yog thawj kauj ruam. Thaum lawv twb tiav ntawd, lawv yuav npaj mus nrog lawv kauj ruam thib ob, uas yog kev sib deev victimize lawv lub hom phiaj.

Lawv yog cov feem ntau, cov kwv tij, ib tug phooj ywg tsev neeg uas siv ib tug ntau ntawm cov sij hawm nyob rau hauv koj lub tsev, ib tug poj niam muaj txiv neeg nyob ze los yog co-neeg ua hauj lwm, kwv tij txheeb ze los yog laus dua cov nus muag, cov mis nyuj khov txiv neej, uas zoo qub tus txiv neej uas nyob tom ntej no lub qhov rooj thiab rau nkawd thiaj txawm, lub ncaws pob kis las los yog kws qhia ntawv uas yuav siv sij hawm xws li ib tug tshwj xeeb kev txaus siab rau ib tug me nyuam, saum toj no tag nrho lwm tus. Ib tug neeg uas ua hauj lwm nyuaj heev ntawm npaj "nyob ib leeg-lub sij hawm" nrog koj tus me nyuam, ua rau nws zoo li zoo li lawv nyob nraum ua koj ib tug haum!

Tag nrho kev sib deev txhom saib rau ib tug lam tau lam ua lub hom phiaj - ib tug me nyuam nyob rau hauv kev xav tau ntawm ib co ntxiv xim los yog hlub, los yog ib tug uas nkawd paub txaj muag thiab tsis nyob rau hauv kev cog qoob loo, tej zaum ib tug me nyuam uas yog ntau tshaj ntawm ib tug loner los yog nyob rau hauv kev xav tau ntawm kev phooj ywg los yog kev taw qhia. Thiab lub sij hawm. Piv txwv li, nyob kev noj kev haus, feem ntau cov laus yuav sib tham rau ib tug ob peb feeb nrog cov me nyuam, thiab ces tig lawv paub mus rau lwm yam neeg laus kev sib tham, lwm yam Tiam sis yog tias txhua tus zus ib ce yog nyob rau hauv lub chav ua noj, thiab "Txiv ntxawm Dave" los yog "Phauj Judy" yeej ib txwm prefers nyob rau hauv lub chav tsev nyob nrog cov me nyuam ua si "twister," xyuam xim rau uas liab tus chij.

Ib txhia ntawm lawv tricks xws li siv tej yam uas cov me nyuam nyiam li bribes los yog khoom plig. Cov khoom ua si, video ua si, computer gadgets, extravagant khoom plig. "Niam thiab txiv tsis muaj nyiaj yuav tau rau koj tias tshiab Wii kev ua si? Tuaj rau mus rau kuv qhov chaw, koj yuav ua si nrog nws nyob ntawm no. "" Koj nyob nraum tsis pub mus saib ib tug tej yam TV qhia tau tias nyob hauv tsev? Koj yuav saib tau nws nyob rau hauv kuv lub tsev, nrog kuv! "Ib tug me nyuam molester yog ib tug kws nyob txog rau cov me nyuam, hais lus lawv cov lus, thiab ua hauj lwm nyuaj heev ntawm ua" ib tug ntawm cov neeg loj leeb. "

Lub ib yam uas deters ib tug me nyuam molester: Yog tus ntshai ntawm raug ntes tau. Yog hais tias ib tug molester xav tias koj tus me nyuam yuav tsis "kom tus pub leejtwg paub" los yog pom tau hais tias koj yog ib tug pom niam txiv, muab kev koom tes nyob rau hauv koj tus me nyuam lub neej txhua hnub thiab kev ua, nws yuav feem ntau tsiv mus rau ib qho yooj yim lub hom phiaj - ib tug uas yuav ua tau "kev ruaj ntseg" rau nws!

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Tsis muaj ib tug xav mus los ntawm lub neej Distrustful ntawm txhua leej txhua tus. Thiab koj tsis muaj mus. Tab sis ntse cov niam txiv paub hais tias muaj tej yam liab chij coj uas feem ntau tam sim no thaum ib tug neeg yog sim kom nraug vauv ib tug me nyuam rau lawv tus kheej devious hom phiaj. Nws yog txhua leej txhua tus txoj hauj lwm yuav tsum paub txog thiab ras rau tej cwj pwm nyob rau hauv cov neeg uas sib tham nrog peb cov me nyuam. Yog hais tias koj los yog koj tus me nyuam ua paub txog cov hauvqab liab chij, tsis pub "ib-on-ib" ib leeg lub sij hawm nrog tus neeg ntawd. Yog pom txiaj cov tricks thaum ntxov, koj yuav muab kev cuam tshuam cov tu txheej txheem ua ntej nws yuav nws tus kheej mus rau hauv ib tug tiag tiag molestation.

Ntawm no yog cov feem ntau liab chij thiab qhov kev ceeb toom tej yam tshwm sim:

1. Ib tug neeg uas pheej tsis mloog cov kev xav, los yog lub cev ib thaj tsam los yog txwv.

2. Ib tug neeg uas singles tawm ib tug me nyuam raws li ib tug "tshwj xeeb phooj ywg", lavishing lawv nrog ib tug ntau ntxiv xim, khoom plig, uas tsis tseeb ntxias - tsim ib lub hnub nyoog-tsis sib raug zoo nrog tus me nyuam ntawd.

3. Ib tug neeg uas feem ntau insists li los yog qhia ib tug ntau ntawm uninterrupted "ib leeg" lub sij hawm nrog ib tug me nyuam.

4. Ib tug neeg uas tsis kam qhia rau ib tug me nyuam muab tej yam nws los yog nws tus kheej txwv.

5. Ib tug neeg uas yuam rau puag, kov, hnia, tickling, wrestling nrog los yog tuav ib tug me nyuam txawm tias thaum tus me nyuam tsis xav kom qhov kev sib los yog xim.

6. Ib tug neeg uas txoj tsis tus kheej los yog cov ntaub ntawv nrog ib tug me nyuam, uas yuav tsum tau nquag los ntawm sib koom nrog cov laus xwb.

7. Ib tug neeg uas nquag ntsiab lus tawm kev sib deev dluab los yog qhia tsis tau tsim nyog, Muab cov dab neeg los yog lus tso dag nrog cov me nyuam tam sim no.

8. Ib tug neeg uas nkawd overly xav nyob rau hauv lub sexuality ntawm ib tug me nyuam los yog tus hluas, thiab hais ntau ntau zaus txog tus me nyuam txoj kev tsim lub cev.

9. Ib tug neeg uas zoo li yuav "zoo yuav tsis muaj tseeb," nquag muab rau tus me nyuam zaum txawv cov me nyuam dawb; noj me nyuam nyob rau tshwj xeeb mus ua si ib leeg; feem ntau yuav me nyuam khoom plig los yog muab lawv cov nyiaj rau cov tsis muaj khees vim li cas - tshwj xeeb tshaj yog ib tug neeg laus uas tsis muaj cov me nyuam ntawm lawv tus kheej.

10. Ib tug neeg uas nquag mus taug kev nyob rau hauv rau cov me nyuam los yog cov hluas nyob rau hauv lub chav dej.

Raws li ib txwm, muaj kev nyob xeeb!

- Noog

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