Hmong: Ib tug niam txiv txoj kev nyuaj: tsev neeg molestation

Ib txhia nyiam hais tias ib tug me nyuam tsis paub yuav ua li cas mus pw. Thaum no tej zaum yuav tsis tau kiag li yeej muaj tseeb, kev txhaum thiab kev coj dawb huv nyob rau hauv ib tus me nyuam muaj tus cwj pwm ua rau nws zoo dua nyob rau kev qhia qhov tseeb tshaj fibbing. Tab sis yog hais tias koj cov me nyuam qhia rau koj tias nws laus nkauj muam nraug nus yog ntshai nws? Yuav ua li cas yog hais tias nws accuses koj tus kwv tij ntawm kev sib deev ua phem rau nws?

Thaum koj tus me nyuam qhia rau koj hais tias nws los yog nws twb tau molested los ib tug neeg hauv tsev neeg, xws kev tshwm sim txo nws hwj koj nyob rau hauv ib tug heev distressing teeb meem no. Koj nyob nraum muab tso rau hauv ib tug tsi ntawm nyuaj siab los ntawm cov uas koj yuav tsum paub thiab txiav txim seb koj tus me nyuam yog qhia qhov tseeb los yog tej zaum cia li ua rau nws mus txog. Tsev neeg molestation yog ib tug heev loj ua txhaum thiab qhov xwm heev ntawm nws yog disturbing txaus tias feem ntau cov niam txiv tsis paub yuav ua li cas rau li cas thiab teb sai sai.

Obviously, cov molested me nyuam yog tus thawj tus neeg raug mob thiab tag nrho lub poob plig yog muab tso rau raws li nws / nws lub xub pwg nyom. Nonetheless, tsev neeg molestation los ntawm ib tug neeg laus kuj tsim kev puas tsuaj loj nyob rau hauv kev sib raug ntawm cov tag nrho tsev neeg. Thaum cov niam txiv ntawm tus neeg coj nws ib sab, ib co neeg hauv tsev neeg tej zaum yuav tsis muab cov tib view. Cov ntsiab teeb meem nrog daim ntawv no ntawm kev tsim txom yog hais tias nws yog nyuaj rau txais tej kev txaj muag ntawm ib tug neeg uas yog ib tug tswv cuab ntawm tsev neeg. Qhov tseeb yog txhua tus mej zeej fights rov qab acquiescence hais tias ib tug ntawm lawv yog ua txhaum ntawm kev ntshai ib tug hluas kwv tij.

Txhua cov ntaub ntawv ntawm tsev neeg molestation pib ua ib qho acid xeem rau loyalty. Qhov chaw uas ua tsim nyog tau yuav hais tias ib co mej zeej xaiv los mus tiv thaiv cov molester thaum lwm tus sympathize nrog tus me nyuam raug tsim txom thiab thov rau qhov raug kaw ntawm lub qub.

Yuav ua li cas raws li nram no yog nro.
Txhua tus mej zeej pib mus hais lus cam thiab vajhuam nws tus kheej thaum lwm tus neeg cia li xav mus khom txhua yam tsis muaj lwm yam neeg paub txog. Koj muaj peev xwm tsis lees yuav nws, tiam sis tej ntaub ntawv ntawm tsev neeg molestation yog ib lub txaj muag xwb tsis rau tus liam tab sis rau tag nrho lub xeem raws li zoo. Qhov no yuav ua cov npoo ntawm cov tag nrho lub zej zog raws li tau zoo. Nws yog heev thaum mus sim thiab txhuam txhua yam nyob rau hauv cov ntaub pua plag thiaj li mus cawm tau cov pab pawg neeg ib tug "dub muag" nyob rau hauv lub view ntawm sab nraud.

Tab sis raws li txhua leej txhua tus ncav mus nqus txhua txhua me ntsis ntawm nws, qhov kev xav ntawm tu siab pib teev nyob rau hauv. Nws yog nyuaj heev nyob rau ib feem ntawm tus neeg niam thiab txiv kom nqos lawv hlub rau lub molester thiab ua raws li dab tsi yog txoj cai - thiab hais tias yog punishing nws .

Tam sim no yog hais tias koj yog niamtxiv ntawm tus neeg, "koj yuav tsum tau tag nrho cov siab tawv thiab lub dag lub zog koj yuav tau mus sawv ntsug rau koj tus me nyuam txoj cai."

Yog li ntawd nco ntsoov bravely fim cov kev ntsuam xyuas:

- Tsi ntawm cov phooj ywg, cov txheeb ze, thiab lwm yam nyob ze cov neeg uas xav tias koj tsev neeg yog txaj muag mus muaj ib tug tswv cuab uas abuses ntshav txheeb ze.
- Tej teeb meem nrog rau lwm cov neeg hauv tsev neeg uas pab txhawb lub molester thiab xav hais tias koj tus me nyuam yog hais dag xwb.
- Uas tswvyim sib txawv thiab tswv yim los ntawm kev txhawj xeeb cov neeg zoo li cov phooj ywg, co-neeg ua hauj lwm, lug txhawb cov miv, cov pov thawj, thiab lwm yam uas yus paub.
- Kom txaus siab tawv mus rau cov tub ceev xwm los yog kom zoo rau tub ceev xwm qhia lub molestation thiab kev tsim txom.

Qhov no yog tsis muaj ib tug tsis ntseeg yuav mus yuav ib tug ntawm cov feem ntau nyuaj journeys koj tsev neeg tau puas tau noj ua ke.

Raws li ib txwm, muaj kev nyob xeeb!

- Noog

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